I went to Graydancers The Defining Moment: Getting What You Want Out of Kink class at Paradise, it’s a great class and if you have the chance to see it, I highly recommend it. I’m planning on taking what I learned and using it again in the future. During the class we deconstructed someone I knew fantasy. It was exciting, analyzing it and discussing it so it could be made into a reality. I wasn’t expecting to do the same with mine.
Since I can remember, I loved being in the water. There is something soothing about being surround in it, being weightless, floating around or pushing yourselves by doing laps. One of the first BDSM websites that I stumbled upon was Water Bondage (which sadly doesn’t update anymore), I don’t remember how many videos I downloaded and how often I would masturbate to it. I still keep some around for when the mood strikes.
We were asked to close our eyes in class and think about the first thing that came to own minds that made us hard or wet. I imaged being tied, dunked in water, helpless and being thrown around. The setting was the pool at Paradise (all that time swimming around naked left its mark) I wish I had the thought to remember to write down the discussion but what can I say other then I was distracted.
We started figuring out what would be needed for my fantasy to be made into a reality, I started getting turned on by just talking about it. As we took my fantasy and started breaking it down, it happened that Gray wanted to do it and the discussing turned more into a negotiation. After checking with the organizers, we found out that we would be able to do the scene that we had talked about. I was busy that evening so we were going to wait till the next day.
Waking up in the morning, it was chilly and cloudy which ruled out the outdoor pool but the indoor pool was still an option. The day was spent swimming, workshops and hanging out, a typical day at Paradise. After dinner, Gray and I met up and headed to the pool with T, who was a huge help and was really sweet during the scene and afterwards.
As I got undressed, there was a feeling of nervousness that overcame me briefly as I stood there naked. Once he touched his rope to my skin, I was started to relax. He tied a hip harness on me and my arms were tied behind me. He noticed the pool noodles and worked it in between my legs and around me by using the existing rope. He walked me over to the edge of the pool where I was told to put my feet on the edge and lean forward while he held on to the harness. During that time, Gray messed with me by saying that he wasn’t sure if the pool noodles would work and created some exciting fear in my mind. The farther I leaned over, the more I excited I got as the anticipation grew.
When he let go, I fell into the water but quickly came back up. The scene was filled with lots of giggling, dunking, being thrown around, being pulled under, nipples being used as a leash and lots of other naughty fun. The rest of the hot details of the scenes are a sexy memory in my mind and those that were there. I would have loved for the scene to last longer but my arms were getting numb and I was pretty gone. I was more spaced then I thought I would be but the come down was gentle with group cuddling, delicious hot chocolate, treats and conversations.
It was a wonderful scene with Gray, a great evening with happy memories. I’ll smile every time I look at that pool.
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