The other week, we had a fun evening out with a friend. We went out for sushi and then back to her house for some fun. We weren’t sure how I would be feeling whether I would want to top, submit or a bit of both. It turned out I was feeling more mischievous and bratty. Exploring my topping side is new to me but I think being submissive to PG and having him order me to do things works. well. Crown let me place a breast harness on her as I wanted to get some practice in on tying someone with a female form.  Sidenote, tying a breast harness on someone with breasts is so much easier.

After tying the breast harness, PG tied her spread out to the sofa. I was being good but once she was tied, I couldn’t help but fight him a bit. We play fought for a while while he was trying to get our metal shackles on me and eventually I gave in with all the pressure points he used on me. He topped it off with putting the gas masks on me, I simply floated away. I watched as he showed her the violet wand and started using it on her. After watching for a while, I wanted to try to zap her too, it was a lot of fun. We ended up using different attachments but my favourite one was the one where I grab and the current goes into me and then whoever I touch gets zapped too. A large part of the fun is feeling the zap too and being able to be closer to the person.

It was fun being on the top side and bottom in the same scene and evening. We finished off the evening with strawberries and frozen yogourt before saying our goodbyes and heading home. It was such a fun evening and I can’t wait till next time. Co-topping is fun and thanks Crown for having us over, hope to do it again.

 

Jul 242010

Last night I went to a FIRE party, which stands for Female Identified Riggers Evolution. It was a lot of fun and a completely different vibe from most rope events. It was great as there was social time in the beginning and then a beginners work shop and downstairs there was a chance for people who were beyond the basics to practice everything from floor work to suspension.

We got a chance to go over the basics. My friend G graciously volunteered to be my stunt bottom as I learned and thankful helped me when I got stuck. I was very happy when I did my first chest harness on him.

One thing I noticed is that as soon as the hemp rope touched my hands, my mind  was starting to get all floaty and started to wander into a more bottom space. I had to fight to stay out of it. I guess over the years, I’ve been conditioned. However, I love being conditioned that way so it will be an interesting experience trying to keep that but being able to turn it off when needed. I’m looking forward to practising more and slowly learning. Now, just to find people to practise on.

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