Task: Clothes Pins

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Jul 042010

“… you are to apply an arc of five clothespins to each of your breasts, with the middle one on the nipple. They are to remain on fifteen minutes. But there’s a twist: At the end of that time, you are to flip a coin. If it comes up heads, you can remove the clothespins. If it comes up tails, you are to leave them on for a further ten minutes.”

Waking up Sunday morning, I opened up my e-mail to discover my task for today.  My morning was busy but the afternoon was free. I stripped, took out my clothes pins and got comfortable on my bed. The wooden clothes pins typically don’t hurt right away but as time goes on, the sensation does built and if they are on for a long time, it can get pretty intense (or if they are hit off). They were getting more sensitive as the minutes ticked away as I grabbed the coin. I ended up flipping heads on the coin and took them off as directed.

On other news, PG and I were speaking about creating our own personal D/s manual. I’m getting more excited about it and have started generating ideas for it. It will be interesting talking about it and exploring it more when he gets back.

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Wednesday Task

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Jun 302010

After a fun, treating myself afternoon and evening, I came home and opened up my e-mail from PG for my task for today.  He has a pair of beautiful, Danton boots that we use exclusive for intimate play between us. The task was to place the boots on the floor and “skinner” my pussy around his boots. I was told to make them gleam.

As I put them down on the floor by the couch, I bent down and kissed the top of each one and then stripped naked. I was already turned on and wet before I started grinding myself on them. I placed myself on them and worked my way on them until they were absorbed with my fluid. His boots soaked it in and before long, I could smell the combination of leather and my wetness, which turned me on even more. I moved on to the next one, which was gleaming shortly after I started. After the task was done, I took a couple of photos, as requested. After I completed the task, I was allowed to relaxed on the floor and brought myself to powerful orgasm.

This task was meaningful and a lot of fun. He left his boots here without saying why, even when I asked what for. Looking at them everyday, I had a feeling they would be used in a task but I thought it might be to condition them. It makes me happy knowing that I’m pleasing him and he will have the e-mails upon his return. It keeps us connected even when he is miles away and without any Internet or phone access. Looking forward to seeing what else he will have me do.

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Task: Getting back into anal play

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Jun 202010

It’s been awhile since I’ve done any anal play and looking back, I’m not sure why. I guess other play has taken over but it’s something that I enjoy. I’ve talk about it with PG but we haven’t gotten a chance to get back into it.

I opened up my first task yesterday, I had the choice of doing it either yesterday or today. Yesterday was busy with organizing, enjoying the sun and going out in the evening with S, which included some savoury Belgian beer. The task was:

…pick a size of butt plug you’re comfortable with. Do any foreplay that makes you relaxed and receptive. Once that’s done, you are to lie facedown, on the bed, Liberator, or mat, as you like. Gently insert the plug …You may cum at the end of this task, but not during.

I decided to start off with one of my smaller one. After some foreplay and keeping myself on the brick of orgasms, I put it in and cuddled up on bed while thinking about past memories of our time together, the feeling of the plug in my ass and about how hot it will be to be taken  again. The requirement was only to keep it in for 15 minutes but I kept it in longer. I went along with some other things that had to be done, checked out some websites and then finally removed it later on in the afternoon. By the time I took it out, I was soaking wet and couldn’t resist getting off with my Hitachi.

Looking forward to seeing the other tasks that are awaiting for me and getting back into anal play.

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His Summer Partner

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Jun 172010

Picture by ecstaticist http://www.flickr.com/photos/ecstaticist/3870259374/

One of the things I love about PG is his love of the outdoors and his outdoor geek talk, even though it goes over my head sometimes. We just spent a great evening together before he departs on one of his adventures, which will keep him away for a month.

He loves being outdoors and as much as I love it, he enjoys going on his solo trips for weeks with just himself, nature and roughing it. It’s one of his passions and I love seeing the excitement in his eyes when he talks about his trips coming up and how relaxed he is afterwards. I love looking at the photos and listening to his tales after we catch up.

One of the things we started doing last year was tasks. He e-mails me a bunch of tasks in advance. I don’t know what he has planned for me but they are sitting in my inbox, waiting to be opened on a stated date and time.  It’s a way we found to keep the bound strong while he is away and continue our training at the same time.

I get to open the first one on Saturday and might be posting updates depending on what they entail and if I’m ordered to. I have a lot planned for the next couple of weeks but it always warms my heart to open them up and knowing that completing them makes him happy. Looking forward to seeing what he has in store for me.

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June MVK

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Jun 062010

June MVK rolled around and we made sure that either PG or I would be volunteering as we wanted the night to have fun since he will be going on vacation soon. I headed out early to attended Rivers “The Care and Feeding of our Top” which was a well put together, informative workshop. If you have the chance to see a workshop by River, take the opportunity as she is a great educator. It allowed me to think of ways to maintain and grow my current relationships and helpful reminders about the power of new relationship energy along with other things.

After hanging out in the sun and grabbing something small to eat, PG and I were able to catch up for a while before we went into play. We jumped on the high blue bench and had a wonderful scene with lots of impact play including paddles, fists, kicking, leather gloves and more. It was a lot of fun and I was floating high pretty early in the scene. One of the many things that is great about PG is that he knows me so well and we have done hundreds of scenes that he knows how to get me out of my mind and into the wonderful floaty space. He let me relax, uncuffed me and lay down on the bench afterwards and relax. After I was more with it and was able to walk, we went to the aftercare tent before being social. I was still pretty floaty but PG made sure I was okay while we talked to some of our friends before calling it a relatively early night. We decided to go back to my house to cuddle and give each other aftercare but unfortunately we feel asleep together before taking part of Cane A Slut Day which is June 6th. However, we still have time today to take part.

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Cream Twisted Monk/Ropecast Giveway #3 and Sunday play

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May 302010

A breast harness was tied on me and I was ordered to lie down. PG placed chocolate ice cream on my breast and directed me to move it around. The coldness of the cream made me wet and giggly. It was dripping all over my breast, I could feel it running down, onto my arms and underneath me. He climbed on top of me and started licking it all off while I was licking too. It was an afternoon of sticky fun.

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We had chocolate all over the both of us after fooling around with plenty of licking, kissing and rubbing against each other. We decided to jump in the shower with the rope on to clean up. One of the joys of hemp is that it gets tighter when it gets wet. You do have to be careful with it but I love the feeling of it and PG will get me out if it becomes too tight. As the rope got tighter and tighter my breath started to get shorter as we scrubbed ourselves and the rope clean.

After drying off from the shower, we did a face up suspension which was really comfortable and left some beautiful rope marks, I tried to move myself into a sideways suspension but it didn’t work so well but we had a blast with the face up one. After enjoying the rope high, my bed was the perfect place to reconnect after not having some quality time together in a couple of weeks. I wasn’t at ShibariCon this weekend but got to spend a lovely afternoon with PG which is priceless.

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Confirmation about hooking up

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May 212010

As most people know, I’m poly but PG and I have a special relationship. I know I’m allowed to play or date  anyone as long as if I’m safe both mentally and physically. I’m also allowed to pursue relationships of various kinds which he supports and encourages. Not to long ago, I decided that I wasn’t going to pursue anymore sexual or romantic relationships as I had a lot going on and needed time for myself. However, that time has past and if the opportunity came up and if the attraction is there, I would be interested.

On Thursday night, I was packing for Sex 2.0. I realized that PG and I haven’t talked about our sexual limits in a bit and got nervous. I’m not planning on anything in particular but you never know what will happen. After missed calls on both of our parts, I decided to send him an e-mail before I left just to make sure if something came up, if everything would be okay like we talked about before I took a break.

Luckily it was but it helped but my mind at ease. I was 80% sure it was going to be but sometimes that confirmation was just what I needed to relax and let this weekend flow.

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Hands on cutting workshop

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May 082010

**Warning there is a photo behind a cut. I’m not sure if it will work in feeds. It is a photo of a cutting. Just a warning if it’s not your thing**

Last week, PG and I went to a hands on cutting workshop. I was delaying writing the post because I was waiting for photos. After talking about the design with each other, we settled on the infinity symbol for a variety of reasons. The next decision was where to place it. We decided on my right lower back because it needs to be hidden from work and some places where it won’t affect daily life.

Once we got to the workshop, I was extremely nervous. It hit me when we were in the car but I couldn’t shake it. It was a good type of giddy nervousness as this would be my first time being cut. Once everyone arrived, I became a bit more calm and PG was sweet enough to distract me by pulling my hair and calming me down.

All the safety was talk about, the technique and other things that are needed. We stencilled out the design and the cutting started. It was really intense while he was cutting and hurt quite a bit. I was getting sick but didn’t realize it till the next day and I’m not sure if it made it more so. When the scalpel cuts the skin, it’s a sharp and intense sensation.

Afterwards, I admire the photos that we took as I couldn’t see the design without mirrors or photos. We snuggled, chat and enjoyed the endorphins that were running around.  Enough talking about it, a photo is below the cut.

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May MVK

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May 012010

May MVK was really quiet for me. I got really sick on Thursday with a cold/fever and spent the majority of Thursday, Friday and Saturday in bed and on my couch. I was hoping to be better for the unconference but unfortunately my body wasn’t going to have it.

PG called me as he was volunteering for the whole night and was starting to feel sick too. He wanted to check in and see how I was doing and if I was feeling better. I was a bit better but didn’t want to push it though so I thought I would stay home. I wished him a goodnight and to feel better. After I hung up, I thought that I wanted to help him out and give him some support since he was starting to feel sick too. It sucks having to volunteer when you are feeling like crap. I was feeling a bit better, wanted out of the house plus S was going to MVK and I wanted to spend time with her too.

We got to MVK just before 10pm and after seeing PG, socializing, and catching up a bit, S and I decided to practice some ties together from the Complete Shibari , which was really fun. PG would come by and help us when we would get stuck and show us little tricks.  I’m looking forward to doing that again.

Afterwards I hung out with PG, giving him a massage and just watching the scenes take place until it was time to go home. A bit of socializing with others and it was time to go home. It was nice car ride home, just spending a bit of time together, hugs and holding hands.

Even though it wasn’t the most action pack MVK and I was still feeling a bit sick,  it was a great time socializing, learning and spending it with two very important people in my life.

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Sundays are now rope day

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Apr 252010

Sundays seem to be the new rope day at my place.  It seems to be the date day that we dedicated to working on our new skills that we have learned. It’s going pretty well and I’m loving that I get to spend so much time being tied and trying out new things.

Rope marks after a suspension earlier this month

Today we did a missionary face up style of suspension, which was fun. After being put in the gun slinger style hip and leg harness, having loose ropes for the chest support and going up in the air, it was pretty comfortable. It’s a good learning experience for me too since I get to learn with PG as we are keep trying new things.

I love being up in the air and the feeling of being off the ground. It’s fun when you can move around and change position. Today, I was able to move around and ended up in a sitting position which was quite comfortable. It’s fun moving around and I’m looking forward to seeing how I can twist and move into other positions. I also like the suspensions were you can’t move around but variety is important and fun.

I’m looking forward to trying more challenging positions too. It’s so much fun to try new things and see what I can do.

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