Head Bondage

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Nov 142011

After watching Lee Harrington Intricate Head Harness on Kink Academy, I knew I wanted to try it and as luck would have it, I had a date night with PG.  I asked PG if he would be interested and he said, “yes”. After watching it together, we sat down on the mat and he got started. After the foundation was tied, he started tying more, I was floating. It was intimate, connecting and special.

Tying so close to me, covering my eyes with the cord and running it in my mouth and under my jaw so I couldn’t speak. Touching me and letting me float with his hands on me, the connection between us building and it taking us where it did. I loved the restriction that it provided not being able to see or talk, simply enjoying.

He was surprised about my reaction and how fast it hit me, we weren’t expecting it but both of us are looking forward to more.

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Sep 122011

The view after the sunset

My collar has been broken for a while, I had a lovely braided leather one but with lots of wear and being exposed to the elements eventually it was beyond repair. We decided we wanted something more permanent however we couldn’t find anything that suited what we both wanted it to be and something that I could wear at work.

After months of looking, I found one that really hit me and sent it to PG. Once he saw it, he agreed and we contacted the maker and started the process. We were sent kits to make a mold out of our fingerprints and sent them back. After waiting for a bit, we got the necklace back. We were intending on waiting till our anniversary before putting it on me but were debating about him giving it to me sooner. We both missed the feeling of me wearing one and the connection when we are apart.

It was our Wednesday date night and we decided to head to the beach and enjoy the sunset. PG asked me how I felt about receiving the collar that night. I was unprepared but it felt right. We picked up sushi and headed to the beach where we enjoyed the sun shinning down on us. After a failed gelato run, we headed back and found a spot right on the water. We watched the sun go down, cudding up with each other. He pulled out the collar and we both shared some very sweet, loving and private words before he put it on me.

It’s been a few days since I’ve been wearing it and I love being able to feel the weight of it on me.  If I’m having a difficult day or miss him, I simply hold onto the heart and feel closer to him. Wearing it is a physical symbol of him always being there with me.

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PG Birthday

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Aug 292011

I wanted to make PG birthday extra special this year and one day wasn’t going to be enough. On the Wednesday, Thai food, drinks and an after dinner cigar treat was the plan. We were in a public park so we weren’t able to do much play outside but he was able to ash in my hand discreetly.

Cigar play on PG birthday

I wanted to get down on my knees but being discreet and having it as our little secret with others around added a different element to it. After relaxing and hanging out, we headed back to my house for a shared bath. There is something sweet about bathing together, getting close in the tub and scrubbing each other clean. Afterwards, we went into my bedroom where he was able to get anything he wished out of me. We both ended up passing out together, cuddled up and enjoying the pleasure we just had.

Part of the scavenger hunt

The second part of his birthday was on Sunday. I wanted to surprise him and thought of the idea of a scavenger hunt. I picked out some gifts

from Maui Kink (who were amazing). I thought of little clues, got fancy take out containers, hide them  and left the first clue out. I asked him to arrive, open the door and go along with what he found. I ended up being able to mostly lock myself in to the bondage mittens and attach them to the bed. The final clue took him to me.

He started out with using the nipple stocks that I got him and he took it from there. I want to keep those memories between us but I ended up with a sore ass, nipples and both us with big smiles on our face. It was a very happy birthday for him and being able to make him happy means the world to me. Happy Birthday Sir.

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August MVK – impact, intimate and service

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Aug 072011

August MVK was wonderful, I wrote about the first part of the night with us co-topping here. After we had some water and calories, we found a station to use and talked to some friends as the floor was a bit quiet. After we caught up a bit, he ordered me naked and strapped me to a spanking bench. This bench has built-in straps which makes it lovely to use as you are secured but have a little freedom to move around. He started off with spanking me and just feeling his hands on me made me feel warm and turned on. At that moment, whatever he wanted to do with me he could. It was a lovely, mixed blur sensation with him spanking, paddling and whipping me. I would sometimes jump in response to the sensation but I enjoyed receiving everything that he gave me. He came up to me towards the end of the scene and told me to count down from 10 and thank him for each hit. It was lovely doing an impact scene there as we could be as loud as we want and not worry about my screams or the sound of the toys. He undid me and sat me on the floor, kissed and cuddled me before we cleaned up and went to the after care area for a bit of private time and come back a bit. Unfortunately, my tummy was acting up and I had to sit up so we decided to be social while I was all floaty.

It was lovely seeing friends and talking, PG took very good care of me and made sure I was well taken care of. I completely give myself to him when we play and tend to fall deep. It can take awhile for me to come back. We both love it and it’s fun not having to be forced back right away. We were hanging out and talking when PG saw someone he hasn’t seen in a while and have played with previously. I was too floaty to co-top again and I wasn’t sure if she would want that but she wanted to play that night.  We were trying to find someone for her but I felt good and could tell he wanted to but wanted to take care of me. I mentioned that I would be good if he played, I just needed to stay close. It can be hard for me to be around people who I don’t feel good energy from when I am all spacey so being able to sit and lay down in the dungeon close by was perfect (there were a couple of people there that I get bad vibes from). They had a wonderful scene and it was fun watching. I enjoyed helping him with things that can make a difference like getting them water so it was close by for afterwards and getting some chocolate to keep their blood sugar good late in the evening. They ended up switching play stations in the middle of it so I ran off to clean up the stations in between and afterwards. It was a service that helped him and made their scene better. I ended up spending the last part of their play with Cake too which was nice, great company.

The party was ending as they finished so we headed out, dropped off Cake and then PG and I had some lovely time together connecting before he let me orgasm and tucked me in for a good night sleep. I love MVK events and this one was so much fun.

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August MVK – First public co-topping

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Aug 072011

Life is pretty good right now, I’m floating in such a happy space after this weekend. This Saturday was MVK and we had a full night. PG and I co-topped together for my first time in public. Our friend, cake was our willing victim. After getting to MVK and socializing a bit, we found a lovely high table to use and claimed it. After she was on her stomach, we started dual spankings her for warm up before grabbing canes and working on her behind. It was fun coordinating our hits with each other so we didn’t end up hitting each others canes. I wanted to play the Oh Canada game with her. How it works is that you get someone to start singing the national anthem and you try to distract them. If they screw up, you start distracting them again and they have to start over. It was fun but she didn’t know the lyrics so I tried to help her by giving them to her a couple of times but in the end the distractions won. I especially enjoyed watching her bum turn from pink to red. I really wanted to play with skewers and we both figure she might need a break from the caning. It was so much fun, scratching over and over again and poking her, hehe. Her back and bum was nicely marked so we decided to flip her over before rolling a dice which would determine how many cups she received when we flipped her over. A 3 ended up being rolled.

PG tied coconut rope around her breast before we cuffed her on her back so we had access to her thighs and her breasts. I started applying the cups while PG had some fun doing breath play. I couldn’t resist having some more fun with skewers, I love how she reacted and her skin. We had some more fun with the violet wand and used the attachment where I hold onto it and the shock comes out of me. It’s fun being able to shock with your hands and what was funny was when PG would go to touch her, he would get a little zap so he insulated himself for a bit. After zapping her with my hands, PG handed me wartenberg pinwheel and that was really fun. It would zap her and her reactions were beautiful. We slowly started to bring her down at that point with PG doing some breath play and I was playing with the coconut rope, pulling on it before we uncuffed her, brought her back and made sure she was okay.

It was great fun co-topping and especially at MVK. We didn’t have to worry about noise and it’s always lovely having the equipment there. Cake was a wonderful bottom, really expressive and fun. PG was supportive and helped me a lot when I got nervous before. We were able to communicate well without even talking and feed off each other to make it a great scene. I can’t wait till we can do it again. I’m hoping to write another entry soon.

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Exploring my puppy side.

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Jul 112011

A grass lawn, a private backyard and a kink party led me to doing my first puppy play outdoors. It was a lovely afternoon surrounded by friends and after enjoying some social time, we decided to head to another part of the lawn that was a bit more quiet, allow us to play and not get in others way.

The water bowl was filled with water and I went onto my knees as he slid the choke collar on me. We played around with fetching the ball, training me on walking, being a good pet and following his lead. He also spent some time grooming, feeding and allowing me to be playful puppy. When I go into puppy space with him, everything else becomes non existent and all I want to do is do what I’m ordered to do to the best of my puppy knowledge, play around and be a cute puppy.

I love how puppy play makes me feel and how it allows me to connect with him. It lets us shut off the world and all that matters to me is simple needs, playing fetch, getting petted and treats.

Another perk is it’s incredibly simple in terms of the gear, we don’t have a lot at this stage. We have a water and food bowl, ball,  bone, choke collar, regular collar and a grooming glove. It’s not an expensive activity to do and some of my favourite times are with none of them at all. You don’t need the expensive gear but you can.

Eventually, we would like to get some of the more expensive toys but right now, we are quite happy. I don’t know any other female puppies in person but there are some great videos on Kink Academy (I don’t get paid anything for these links, I just love the site and think it’s a great resource.)

Do you have any other resources that you can share? If you are a female puppy too, let me know.

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A wilderness weekend with PG

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Jun 172011

Relaxed, perfect and oh so happy. Last weekend was perfect. PG surprised me with a kayaking and camping trip to a local island in BC. I couldn’t wait and was jumping around, excited for days before.

View from our campsite

He took care of pretty much everything as he is an experienced kayaker and this would be my first time doing a kayak and camping trip. The trip was perfect and we were able to connect without any other distractions or obligations.  Barely any cell phone use, no landlords or neighbours to worry about or computers. Our to do list was simply each other.

The first evening was lovely with a fire being started after we set up camp. We did the traditional hot dogs and the most delicious mint s’mores while we relaxed before retiring in for the night. Sleeping naked together with him keeping me warm, simply rolling over and fucking me and using me as he wished made for a restful and happy sleep. There is something to be said about waking up in the outdoors with someone you love. I’m not sure how we pulled ourselves out of bed but we did. I was all smiley and full of cuddles and kisses as we made breakfast and enjoyed coffee.

We spent the Saturday hiking, stopping for outdoor blowjobs and upon our return to the campsite, PG set up a portable shower for us to use. It was a unique experience showering with the branches and bushes but it allowed us to stay clean while being dirty. We couldn’t wait to jump into the tent and have some fun.

During our walk

Unfortunately , there were teenagers camping close by so we had to be a bit more quiet then we wished but he was deliciously mean to me  and tested my obedience to him by making me put clamps on myself and then ordering me to take them off. It was a lovely afternoon and we both drifted off in a post orgasm bliss. We awoke to make dinner and after a lovely pasta meal that PG cooked, we enjoyed a cigar with some whiskey. It was a perfect way to enjoy an evening smoking a cigar, sharing the bench together and cuddling up. When his ash got long, he would place it in my hand. As soon as the ash would hit my hand, it sent a tingle within me. I loved being his ashtray and serving him anyway he wished.

We woke up on Sunday and I wished we could of just stayed longer but it was time to get ready to go so we could take a detour route home. I loved all the time we spent together and how much closer we feel after escaping away.

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Double team

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Jun 022011

The other week, we had a fun evening out with a friend. We went out for sushi and then back to her house for some fun. We weren’t sure how I would be feeling whether I would want to top, submit or a bit of both. It turned out I was feeling more mischievous and bratty. Exploring my topping side is new to me but I think being submissive to PG and having him order me to do things works. well. Crown let me place a breast harness on her as I wanted to get some practice in on tying someone with a female form.  Sidenote, tying a breast harness on someone with breasts is so much easier.

After tying the breast harness, PG tied her spread out to the sofa. I was being good but once she was tied, I couldn’t help but fight him a bit. We play fought for a while while he was trying to get our metal shackles on me and eventually I gave in with all the pressure points he used on me. He topped it off with putting the gas masks on me, I simply floated away. I watched as he showed her the violet wand and started using it on her. After watching for a while, I wanted to try to zap her too, it was a lot of fun. We ended up using different attachments but my favourite one was the one where I grab and the current goes into me and then whoever I touch gets zapped too. A large part of the fun is feeling the zap too and being able to be closer to the person.

It was fun being on the top side and bottom in the same scene and evening. We finished off the evening with strawberries and frozen yogourt before saying our goodbyes and heading home. It was such a fun evening and I can’t wait till next time. Co-topping is fun and thanks Crown for having us over, hope to do it again.

 

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Goodbye Capri Hall!

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May 132011

Last Saturday was MVK and the last night at the Capri Hall. I’ve been to most MVK’s parties there and it was also the site of the Vancouver GrUE. Lots of orgasms, giggles and screams were had there and it holds a special place for me. I’ll always have a smile every time I see the hall. It’s been the home of  MVK  since the beginning.

The evening began with a scene auction which was enjoyable to watch and PG bid on and won a scene with a sexy, female dominant for us. Of course, I’ll be the one bottoming but I’m nervous as they are both evil. I’m not sure when the date will be but I’ll just have to wait and be a good girl as PG negotiates for us.

We quickly jumped on the floor and grabbed the frame and after undressing, he secured me in a sitting position with my legs spread wide for his desires. He took out the violet wand and started zapping me but due to being chilly, it was a completely different sensation. It felt like I was getting burned compared to getting shock. The scene went on and it was a blur afterwards. We had such a great scene and curling back up at home was the perfect end.

Bye Capri Hall, you served us well and I’m looking forward to the new venue wherever it is.

 

 

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Easter Long Weekend

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Apr 252011

Time has just flown by this month, I was immersed in two incentives and then came down with a bug that knocked me out for a bit. The first week of April was the Passionate Bonds Intensive, which I talked about in this post. I’m still so happy that I went and the knowledge that I gained is making PG and I feel so much closer. After I returned and a weekend rest, I went down to Max’s Bondage Intensive in Seattle. I’ll be writing about it in a separate entry but it was incredible. I went from learning the basics to suspending someone in one weekend. Granted, I don’t feel comfortable suspending someone now but it put me on the path and gave me the knowledge to keep practising and learning. It also confirmed that I want to learn more.

Once I got back, I started feeling ill and PG was just getting over catching a worse bug himself. It looked like I caught what he had so on Friday to be safe, we had to cancel our plans to attend the protocol dinner. It made me sad but PG reminded me that being sick and serving is not his ideal and wants me to be healthy when we go. Plus, I didn’t want to spread any germs either.

Swap Meet Scores

I volunteered to DM at Rascals on the Saturday and had wanted to go to the swap meet before. PG was really sweet and surprised me with rewards for 6 months of  quitting smoking. We got metal shackles, leather mittens and a rattan looped caned. He also scored an arm binder for himself, it smells wonderful and will be fun to play with. Everything was such a great deal and there was more stuff that we had to say no too. Rascals was fun, it was great seeing some friends and hanging out. I was able to wear the shackles around the dungeon for awhile and serve drinks while wearing them. It was a fun activity trying to balance two drinks with limited movement. I didn’t have much energy that night and decided not to do pick up play that night. Not that many people stayed to the very end which allowed PG and I cuddled up while watching the final scenes. The night ended perfectly with PG and I spending some time alone after bringing me home. Between travelling and him being sick, we have missed a lot of time together and was eager to reconnect.

During our walk

Sunday afternoon was rainy and chilly outside but we took PG dog and walked around Acadia Beach and Spanish Banks. It was lovely walking around and throwing rocks into the water for his dog but we were both eager to get back home and play. After a couple of hours and our heads damp, we headed back where I took a long, hot bath before PG returned.

I was told to be naked, shackles ready and my collar on. After greeting each other, he led me into the bedroom where we did some arm stretches before experimenting with the shackles and the different position they can go in. After being used, he put me on the bed, put my hands in the mittens and attached them to either side of the bed before sliding on the gas masks to conceal my sounds. After he was satisfied, he took our new rattan looped cane and hit my breast multiple times until they were burning red and throbbing. I think we got up to 100 before he let me rest. He wants me to increase my pain tolerance on them as we haven’t done a lot of heavy play with them recently. This and nipple clamps are a fun way to train them, all training should be this fun. After more intimate time, we blissfully rested in each other arms before pulling ourselves away for a chili dinner and chocolate. What a perfect way to spend a Sunday even with a stuffy nose and bruised breast today.

 

 

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