Olympics and mixing it up with kink

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Feb 282010

The Olympics are over in Vancouver, unfortunately. Living in Vancouver, BC made it such more special. Decking out in red and white everyday, cheering on the Canadian athletes with fellow Canadians, the street parties, free events,  random hugs, slaps and seeing Canada win gold after gold was incredible. I’m sure there will be a massive hangover after this. Canadians all over came together and we were loud, proud and had one hell of a party.

I loved the Olympics and with hockey being my favourite sport (golds for both the men and women!!!!) I was into it before the games started. However, PG isn’t such a sports fan. He accepted my invitation to Canada game and let me watched the Russian vs Canada game but that is about as far as it expended. I really appreciated him being open to it, happy for me, going to a game and putting up with me and my craziness during the last two weeks.

I made a couple of proposals such as playing the Canadian anthem before we played which was rejected but I thought of a fun game that we both can play and enjoy. I would start singing Oh Canada and he would try to stop me by inflicting pain. I won the first round but I’m sure the next time he will be more prepared.

I have an idea for the next MVK and as much as I would love to share it, it will have to stay a secret because I have to run it by PG first. I was wondering, did anyone combine kink and the Olympics? I would love to hear some fun things that you did with an Olympic theme or basis.

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Paradise Unbound 2008: Friday and Saturday

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Sep 232008

I finally had a chance to write about a fabulous long labour day weekend, 1 of 2 of entries.

Paradise Unbound was an event that I’ve heard about in the past couple of years but never attended that is hosted by the Centre for Sex Positive Culture in Seattle.  It happened to come up at a Bottoms Up night and once we heard about all the details, we decided this was an event that we had to attend.

We couldn’t go for the whole event but decided we could go from Friday to the Monday. After booking off the time off of my day job and packing, we headed down to the States. We decided to go in two separate groups due to work availability but being in the earlier group allowed us time to relax, set up camp and stop by the grocery store for some wine and snacks. After hanging out for awhile, enjoying a wonderful dinner we decided to simply relax and have some drinks. We ended up doing a bit of spanking but other then that we waited for our friends to arrive and ended to bed.

I’m a morning person and tend to be up before most people. Since I was one of the first ones to wake up, I would grab a coffee and head out to the fire to hang out and talk. On Saturday morning, Mistress Ava and I wanted to go to a flogging making workshop. I ended up getting pretty involved in it, giggling and getting all bouncy as I made the flogger throughout the day. The man who was leading the workshop was wonderful and ended up staying late to allow me to finish it. It has a beautiful wood handle and black suede tails. After the skipped meals and workshops, my flogger was done and I couldn’t wait to test it out. This was my first flogger I’ve ever made and I’m more then thrilled from the results. It will always have a special place in my toy bag and has inspired me to make more toys. I’m grateful to have been taught, help and guided on how to make one.

I couldn’t resist having some of the floggers he made and after we finished he tested out a variety of them including this massive one which must of weighed 40 pounds and packed a punch called a Bear Kiss. It was fun but I ended to rest a bit after not taking a break all day. It was time for dinner and the food was delicious and after dinner and drinks, we decided to have some fun in the outdoor dungeon.

We headed into the dungeon to play, I ended up having my brand new flogger used on me as well as a couple of Mistress Ava toys. It was a fun impact play scene including a bit of forced dancing but we had to call the scenes short as we were all really cold and it’s difficult to have a hot scene when you can’t get warmed up. We ended to the fire after that and meant up with everyone else.

Later that evening we decided to go watch some local BC friends do fire play. As I watched two others get lit up, I got more and more turned on, memorized and excited. After watching them, they asked me if I would like to play and I jumped at the chance. I’ve done fire play before but never in a setting like this and was able to try out some new things. Having the warmth of the fire against my cold skin was an experience, it tickled as it rushed along my skin and increased my own arousal. I think my favourite part of my body is when it goes on my inner thighs and brushes against my pussy.  The feeling is pure pleasure.

After I was warmed up, they placed hair mousse on my stomach. The fire would wrap around it, going around and around in the design they placed. It wouldn’t burn my skin but created a tantalizing sensation and very unique.  It’s definitely a wonderful addition to fire play.

More details to be said but it was wonderful having a scene with them, they were really sweet and safety was a priority. Watching other people including a good friend play was hypnotizing and was such a wonderful way to wrap up Saturday night before we went to make s’mores, head to the hot tub to bed.

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Dungeon

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Aug 282008

Life has been pretty busy but a lot of fun. I really wish I had more time to blog. However, I am getting a wonderful package in the mail, which should keep me busy after my trip.

Last week, I found out that I wouldn’t be able to use the dungeon that I was renting. I was pretty disappointed ,as I enjoy renting from her. She was a great person and her dungeon was amazing.

It ended up turning out well, I found another space to rent with new equipment to try. It’s still in a great location and she seems like a wonderful person to rent from with a great reputation. If you are my friend or close client, I can provide you with more information about it and any changes that would be in effect.

I’m looking forward to this new opportunity and where it will lead me and all the fun I will have on the way. So much more to say but right now I’ll leave it at the fact that I’m really happy with how things are coming together.

On other news, I’m leaving for Paradise Unbound on Thursday. In addition to this, I’ll be going to Atlanta for DomCon in October.

I have more to write and update about however it’s time to pack for my kinky camping BDSM weekend away.

Hope everyone has a wonderful Labour Day weekend.

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Sin City: Drinks and Spanking

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Jun 172008

A couple of weekends ago, I gave in to a friend and went out to Sin City. The evening was filled with drinking, flirting, making out, spanking and even assisting in one. It was such a fun evening, and has been one of my more wilder weekends in a while. I use to not make it out to Sin because of obligations on the weekend however I’m glad I went and reminded me of the fun to be have.

At one point I was hanging out on the patio when this cute, sexy girl was telling me about her desire to be spanked. After flirting for awhile I couldn’t help but assist her with her desires.

We ended to the dungeon where I found my friend. Since I’ve been being bratty to him most of the evening, I thought this would make up for it and ask for his assistance in spanking her. We went over to the medical table, bent her over, and pulled up her skirt. He started spanking her slowly while I went over to her, held her hands and talk to her. It was hot, watching her face as he spanked her, slap by slap, watching her expressions change as she gets more into it.

It was pretty cute and hot to watch and was a plus when I ended up spanking her. It was a short scene but definitely was a nice highlight in the everything.

What could be better then having a woman bent over with her ass in the air, waiting to be spanked by you?

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Sunday afternoon

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May 042008

I’m ready to crawl into bed as I’m exhausted but really happy and content.

Spent the morning running errands and a lovely walk around the local lake. It’s a nice little spot where you can walk around, get in some fresh air and escape the noise and cars of the city.

After getting home and showering, PG came by for some kinky fun. After dressing up in my PVC skirt, corset and boots we had a fun time involving electricity, biting and a bit of bondage. We tested out a certain bondage position for future use, which is surprisingly comfortable but makes it difficult to orgasm. After the leather cuffs were on, he took my wrist and put them between my leg, attached one wrist with rope, ran it across my back and connected it with my other wrist. After leaning back it created a spreader bar effect as I couldn’t close my legs and was left in a helpless position.

We played with the violet wand, which I absolutely love. He used the probe attachment on me, varying the sensation between the breast and pussy area. I love the varying sensation of just before it’s going to spark and connect to your skin and when it actually does. Not looking at the wand, before it connects with you skin, wondering how intense it’s going to be and where he is going to use it next are all thoughts that wonder though my mind while enjoying the sensations. Much more to be said but it was a private session and would rather keep the rest of the memories in my mind then write them out.

What a perfect way to end the weekend. I’m looking forward to having to alter my work wardrobe for the next couple of days to try and cover the bite marks that are on the front of my neck. Now to make some tea, and cuddle up and head to bed. I still have to write about Wednesday and Saturday.

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Wired pussy pictures and getting ready

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May 032008

I’m a bit behind in my post however life is keeping me busy in a good way. I had a wonderful time on Wednesday and will be posting about that shortly. However after starting to write about it, I got really turned on and was watching some videos on Wired Pussy. Decided to post some of the photos for you to enjoy.

Now to slip on my military PVC dress and head to a workshop on Labia Infusion and Suturing at MVK. It should be interesting and a lot of fun to witness. Enjoy the couple of photos and I’ll be writing a bit more about what has been going on soon. I have a thing for the probe attachments Continue reading »

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Raven's Retreat: Mini roadtrip

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Apr 132008

Despite everything going on, I was really eager to head out to Ravens Retreat. It was their last event that they would be holding and since I never had a chance to make the trip out to the valley I had to go.

We headed out fairly early and on our way there we got a flat tire. We didn’t realize it at first and thought it may of been the wind but after driving for a bit, we pulled over at an exit and had a look. The tire on the back was completely flat. After wondering what we were going to do and calls being made, one of our friends thankfully was able to change it. I would of had no idea what we would of done without her help and skill but luckily we were all safe and the spare tire was placed on.

We arrived at the dungeon, but shortly left in order to get a replacement tire as it would of been a really long drive on the spare. After dragging this poor guy out of his house to come to our rescue (including his family) a new tire was placed on the car and we headed back out to the dungeon.

The space is lovely with a variety of play stations and equipment to use. Beautiful decor and plenty of room to hang out or play. The energy at the party was high, and I ran into some friends that I haven’t seen in awhile and met some new people. After touring around, PR was getting ready to top one of our friends and asked if I wanted to join in. I don’t top that often but I enjoy doing impact play. I don’t have permission to blog about the scene but it was fun. Unfortunately though, my back and shoulder are still healing from the past week so I had to stop early however PR continued on and it was fun watching.

Piercing was also being done at the party by Elwood and I was tempted to get my naval re-pierced, however the jewelry wasn’t available and I should think it over instead of making a quick decision. I miss having a piercing, it feels nice touching it and moving it around, so I’m leaning towards it in the future. On a positive note, it was really fun watching other be pierced and the energy that comes from that. It also got me thinking about play piercing as I really want to do it again. Maybe I should arranging a private teaching session in the near future, which I was discussing with him about and how it could be arranged.

We hung out upstairs after PR scene was done . We talked to others and just relaxing while having some drinks and snacks. It was getting a bit late and we were all getting tired so we headed out and went back on the road. Overall, the party was a lot of fun and I’m glad we went made the trip out. It’s unfortunate that they won’t be holding anymore but it was a wonderful time and I’m glad that we were able to make it out to the last one.

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Taking a break professionally

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Apr 122008

I’ve been hesistant about posting about this due to the nature of it and what it means to me in my life.

Last week, I was doing a professional scene at the dungeon I was working at. I’m going to be sparing most of the details as I don’t think this is the place for it.

I was doing an impact scene, which was going well at first. He started to spank, crop, etc. harder , which was perfect until he hit my tailbone and then my spine. For people who don’t know, you don’t hit those areas. I immediately safe worded yellow and when he continued to hit me harder I safeworded red. He didn’t listen and clearly heard me as he stopped for a brief moment, switched areas and continued harder on a different spot. I safeworded red a couple more times however he completely ignored them.

I was pretty shaken up and in a state of shock because of this. This was over a week ago and most of the marks are gone however there are still some lingering ones on the side of my thighs.

Due to this I’m taking time off from pro subbing. At this point, I need to take time for myself to heal and recover both physically and mentally from this. I wish this wasn’t the case but I need to take care of myself and hope everyone understands. My private play has also been affected by this and I’m still unsure about how I’ll be handing events in the short term.

I’m determine to take the necessary time to do this and at the pace that is right for me. This hasn’t affected my views on kink or BDSM as it’s something dear to me and part of me.

I’ll still be posting about my non-professional life and when I’m ready to start again, I’ll be sure to post more information like where and how I’ll be doing it.

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MVK: pussy tightrope walking

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Apr 072008

(**after the workshop**)

We were at the suspension frame, and I was eagerly waiting in my cincher and stocking. I stood there, undressed, while watching him go though his toy bag. I wondered what he was going to do with the toys and implements that he was pulling out. Being the way I am, the curious nature and impatient my mind was pondering what he was going to do to me.

He started out by pulling out the ropes, clips and other items. After teasing me by not allowing me to know what was going to happen, he started by tieing a piece of hemp rope with knots in it. He walked around to the one post and tied it. He then attached the other piece to the opposite side, which stretched the rope across the length of the frame. After he did that, I knew I was in for a hot predicament scene.

He bound my wrist with a two column tie and clipped my arms above me. They were connected to a piece of rope that was above me and connected across the top part of the suspension frame. I was ordered to step over the rope that was just below waist level. With one foot over the rope, it was right between my legs . He ordered me to walk, along the rope until I would reach a knot. At first it wasn’t that difficult walking along but as the knots would pass over me, I would get more and more sensitive. I couldn’t walk at one point but with him gently pulling on my cincher I was able to pass over a couple more knots.

At one point, I couldn’t pass over the ropes anymore (or so I thought) as it was too sensitive to move another inch.. I tried standing on my tippy toes however whenever I did, he told me I wasn’t allowed with a sadistic smile. Since I was feeling a bit bratty, I didn’t want to obey and wanted to push back a bit and see what would happen.

He reacted by moving up the rope so I wouldn’t have a choice but have it digging in to me. I continued moving back and forth over the length of the rope, grasping and achieving in pleasure or pain whenever I reached at knot. The scene continued …..

I was in the predicament for a fair bit, had some wonderful fondling, teasing/denial, and having the tension and height of the rope increase and decrease. My pussy and ass were really tender from rubbing against it. It felt so good and raw at the same time. When he released me, the rush of blood and endorphins running though my body was intense. The feeling of no longer being connected to the rope, the helpless and being physically released left me spacey, so we headed over to the aftercare area to cuddle.

More to say about this wonderful scene, but my bedroom is calling me to reminisce about Saturday and patiently wait until the next time.

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Rascals Saturday Night

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Mar 162008

After spending a lot of time inside over the past few days, Saturday was a welcoming change.

I initially wasn’t planning on going and spending a quiet night in, however after talking to a friend I was convinced to go. After deciding to go, the big decision was on what to wear. After tearing open my drawers and closet I was settled on wearing my pink leather corset, which has pvc ribbon attached at the front, pvc skirt, sexy stockings and my high heal leather boots.

We arrived in the later portion of the evening and upon entering, I was able to see a bunch of familiar faces. After saying hi to everyone and catching up, I spotted one of my friends who recently inquired a cupping set. Since play isn’t allowed outside of the dungeon, she “demonstrated” it on me with the top portion of my breast. I loved the feeling of the pressure building and building, which increases your arousal state. The pressure even offs and eventually you remove the cup and the pressure and tingles run though you. I wanted to try it out in more areas of me however we didn’t get a chance to as everyone else was all over it. However, we did set up a time turning the week where I will be able to experience more. Expect a long entry about that experience. I’m all giddy with excitement over it. Dinner, cupping, and hanging out with a great woman……

I decided that I wasn’t going to play that night, which meant a couple of drinks were owed to me. After picking up my Kahola on ice, I spent most of the night relaxing, socializing and watching the various scenes going on. Flirted a bit in the social area and smoking room and ended up meeting some really interesting people, who I’m looking forward to talking with in the future. Spent some time, once it started dying down with PG which included catching up, talking and sneaking in some comfort and cuddles. It was a bit chilly outside, but decided I preferred to walk home, despite the outfit. I was lucky and had PG join me on the walk home, which made it safer and comforting. After asking to be untied from my corset in my lobby and a goodbye kiss, I stripped down and cuddled up to enjoy some time with myself and my toys.

Overall it was a low intensity evening, but thats what I was looking for. Unfortunately it doesn’t leave it that exciting to read about but I had a nice, social evening while dressed to kill.

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