Apr 252011

Time has just flown by this month, I was immersed in two incentives and then came down with a bug that knocked me out for a bit. The first week of April was the Passionate Bonds Intensive, which I talked about in this post. I’m still so happy that I went and the knowledge that I gained is making PG and I feel so much closer. After I returned and a weekend rest, I went down to Max’s Bondage Intensive in Seattle. I’ll be writing about it in a separate entry but it was incredible. I went from learning the basics to suspending someone in one weekend. Granted, I don’t feel comfortable suspending someone now but it put me on the path and gave me the knowledge to keep practising and learning. It also confirmed that I want to learn more.

Once I got back, I started feeling ill and PG was just getting over catching a worse bug himself. It looked like I caught what he had so on Friday to be safe, we had to cancel our plans to attend the protocol dinner. It made me sad but PG reminded me that being sick and serving is not his ideal and wants me to be healthy when we go. Plus, I didn’t want to spread any germs either.

Swap Meet Scores

I volunteered to DM at Rascals on the Saturday and had wanted to go to the swap meet before. PG was really sweet and surprised me with rewards for 6 months of  quitting smoking. We got metal shackles, leather mittens and a rattan looped caned. He also scored an arm binder for himself, it smells wonderful and will be fun to play with. Everything was such a great deal and there was more stuff that we had to say no too. Rascals was fun, it was great seeing some friends and hanging out. I was able to wear the shackles around the dungeon for awhile and serve drinks while wearing them. It was a fun activity trying to balance two drinks with limited movement. I didn’t have much energy that night and decided not to do pick up play that night. Not that many people stayed to the very end which allowed PG and I cuddled up while watching the final scenes. The night ended perfectly with PG and I spending some time alone after bringing me home. Between travelling and him being sick, we have missed a lot of time together and was eager to reconnect.

During our walk

Sunday afternoon was rainy and chilly outside but we took PG dog and walked around Acadia Beach and Spanish Banks. It was lovely walking around and throwing rocks into the water for his dog but we were both eager to get back home and play. After a couple of hours and our heads damp, we headed back where I took a long, hot bath before PG returned.

I was told to be naked, shackles ready and my collar on. After greeting each other, he led me into the bedroom where we did some arm stretches before experimenting with the shackles and the different position they can go in. After being used, he put me on the bed, put my hands in the mittens and attached them to either side of the bed before sliding on the gas masks to conceal my sounds. After he was satisfied, he took our new rattan looped cane and hit my breast multiple times until they were burning red and throbbing. I think we got up to 100 before he let me rest. He wants me to increase my pain tolerance on them as we haven’t done a lot of heavy play with them recently. This and nipple clamps are a fun way to train them, all training should be this fun. After more intimate time, we blissfully rested in each other arms before pulling ourselves away for a chili dinner and chocolate. What a perfect way to spend a Sunday even with a stuffy nose and bruised breast today.

 

 

Oct 262009

After the little bit of water bondage that we did on Friday, PG decided that Sunday would be a great day to continue where we left off. I filled up the tub with warm water before climbing in making sure the water was perfect. PG sat outside of it and ordered me to move in the positions that he desired to get the rope where he wanted them. Rope was around my breast and my hands were tied to my side.

I was told to kneel in the full tub as he grabbed my hair and dunked me under water. The water surrounded me and without him holding me down, I would float back up. He would bring me back up, let me semi compose myself, tell me to take a deep breath and dunk me again. After holding me under water for a bit, he told me to sit up and we took a bit of a break for some sexual fun until he ordered me back on my knees and dunked me again. This time he added a bit more to it. As he dunked me he reached around and started finger fucking me, adding to the hotness that water bondage already is. I was soaking wet and with the feeling of water being moved all around me and his hand keeping my pussy busy, I was on cloud nine. We continued this for a while until he told me to lie on my back and we tried dunking from that angle but unfortunately it didn’t work and a nose plug will be needed for the future.

We played in the tub for just under a hour before it was time to dry off and curl up into bed. It was perfect and I was floaty, happy and horny.

A bit more information, I realized I don’t keep count when I’m submerge as the trust is there (I wouldn’t be doing it if it wasn’t). If I do have any trouble with being under water before he pulls me up, we have safety signals but every time I let a bit of bubbles out, he pulls me up. We don’t mess around with it as we would rather play it safe then push for another 5 seconds. If you decided to try water bondage, make sure you trust the person with your life as it is in their hands,  do the proper research, have first aid training and make sure you have the strength and skill to do it. Here is a link to PG posting about his view of water bondage

Super Cuffs

Super Cuffs

I’m a huge fan of leather cuffs, the smell, feel and resistance that they provided. Unfortunately, there are some negatives and don’t appeal to everyone. Super Cuffs fills in perfectly, they are made of neoprene and offer a perfect solution to some of the negatives. That is one of the reason why when I saw them at Babeland, I knew I had to try them and luckily enough, before I knew it, I was waiting eagerly for them in the mail.

The cuffs come packaged with directions, which was the first thing I found appealing. It gives you easy step by step direction on how to connect them together or allows you to separate them and use them individually. The cuffs are made out of neoprene and prove to be comfortable. I’ve used a variety of leather cuffs, including the fur or fabric lined one and these ones are the most comfortable to date.  Since my partner would be the first one to test them out on me,  his opinion on the cuffs were, “leather cuffs are sexy, but suffer from the problem of only adjusting in increments. Depending on the bottom’s wrist size, leather cuffs may not have a setting between “too easy to get out off” and “too tight to wear.” These neoprene cuffs solve that problem by being infinitely adjustable (a good quality in both kink toys and kink partners…) thanks to their Velcro.”

I found the Super Cuffs to be comfortable and allowed me to stay in positions that I couldn’t with traditional cuffs or to extend play in others. One example is when I was testing them out, I was on my back, hands bound behind my back and placing the majority of weight on them. I was able to stay in this position for over an hour where normally it would of been limited to 15 minutes at the most. The cuffs fit perfectly and adjusted to fit on my ankles as well. I tested them out on a couple of my friends of various shapes and due to the Velcro they can accommodate a variety of sizes. They are 2 inches wide and can go up to 13″ in diameter.

In terms of cleaning, PG mentioned that , “one suggestion: if you sweat in these cuffs—and, if your Top is doing things right, you should be—regularly wash in them in gentle soap, rinse them well and air dry them to prevent that wetsuit-like odour from building up.” I’ve washed them a couple of times and it has no affect over the quality of them, just be sure to be gentle with them. One helpful hint to watch out for, if the person wearing the cuffs is not tied down and have their arms free to rub against you, watch out as the Velcro can leave scratch marks on the other person. It’s up to you if that’s a good thing or a bad thing.s

The Super Cuffs are a bondage lovers dream. They allowed me to struggle, be bonded and yet comfortable enough to not interrupt my play session. They aren’t the most stylish cuffs out there but they are a gem in my toy box and hopefully yours. Who doesn’t want their play sessions to last as long as possible?



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I am still recovering from the weekend. I’m sitting in my living room, reminiscing about the wonderful weekend I had.

Saturday night was the Schools Out MVK play party. I decided to follow the school girl theme and dress up. I steered away from the classic school girl look by wearing my PVC school girl shoes, fishnets, a short school girl skirt, tight white dress top and a black PVC cincher. It was fun playing with the look and making it a bit more suited to me and it’s always nice to received some compliments on an outfit.

The workshop that evening was predicament bondage with Elwood Reid. It was a wonderful workshop, really fun and watching girls getting tortured is always a pleasure. At one point, the stunt bottom was in a predicament that was similar to one I’ve experienced at one point and I could not help but get all giddy and turned on.

After the workshop, we went outside while the play party was being set up. PG and I were planning on doing a scene and a bit of prep was needed. After inserting the smart balls, we went outside to put on the cuffs. It gave me a bit of a rush to get ready outside but we were generally protected from the view of any innocent onlookers. After we were all set, we headed into the party and secured ourselves the bondage table to play on.

I had no idea what type of scene he had planned and no matter how hard I tried to get hints, he wouldn’t give away any details. He told me to remove my thong and nothing else. I rarely leave my clothes on when we have a scene so it intrigued me on why I would be wearing clothes for this scene. After removing the black thong, he ordered me to lie face down on the table. He secured my wrist and ankle to the tie points, which left me helpless to move and secured a blindfold over me so I was unable to see what he was going to do.

I was squirming in anticipation, wondering what was going to happen, when I felt his hand on me. He started to spank me to warm me up slowly. Spanking me on each cheek, turning me on and warming me up as he switched to a different implement. I’m not sure what he used but I believe it was a strap. He strapped me over my ass and upper thighs until they were red and burning. Among hitting me on my ass he would allow the tip to snap between my inner thighs, causing a delightful sensation. I had smart balls in me the whole time which would cause every smack to make them jiggle inside me, bring me closer and closer to orgasm. He would reach his hand down to touch me, which allowed me to take more then usual and relaxes me. I was falling into a wonderful subspace sensation as he slowed down and checked in on me and felt how hot my ass was.

After my ass was nice and red he told me to relax and be a good girl. I felt liquid drop on me, unaware of what was going on, my mind going though everything that he would be doing to me. I felt his hand gently on my ass, working its way down to my hole. He starts playing with it, loosing me up and slowly inserting his fingers inside me. As my ass excepted more and more, I was getting wetter and wetter. After stretching me and opening me up, he pulled out and I felt something bigger being pushed against my ass. It was a bit of a struggle as he was telling me to lean back on it. As he was pushing it in, I felt a burning sensation. I was not sure what was going on, I thought it was a plug and that it should not of felt that way. I was in a bit of a panic, not sure what to do but trusted him. It was a bit too much to take (the burning) when I was finally able to manage to ask him what was in me. He answered me by telling me it was a ginger root. As soon as I realized he was figging me, I was able to embrace the sensation. With the burning sensation in me, him playing with me I was flying pretty high.

After awhile my body got more accustom to the sensation however there was a bit of a disturbance in the dungeon that caused me to fall out of my high. It was only a small thing but it connected me back to the real world and I lost that high I was on. PG was able to bring me back up into subspacey feeling again though by having me focus on him and the ginger in me.

When I am being figged my body becomes paralyze and I cannot even cum with it inside me. My whole attention gets focused on the feeling I am receiving and PG who is there, pushing me and encouraging me to keep going.

After having it in for over 20 minutes, it was getting a bit much for me because of the drop. He asked me to keep it in for two minutes, which I was able to do with him asking. The sensations were getting more intense and when he started counting it down, I was leaning on him for the strength to do it. After the time was up, he removed the ginger root and started to bring me down slowly.

After I was more stable, he untied me and we headed to the aftercare area, came down together and enjoyed relaxing after the hot scene we just had.

A perfect scene for a naughty catholic school girl.

“You’re wearing too many clothes” he said.

I was sitting towards the wall, cuddled up with a friend, watching an attractive friend being tied up. Sitting there, all cuddled up and clothed I was a bit curious to see how their scene would unfold.

Next thing I knew I was getting undressed and having a breast harness placed on me. I joined my friend and was kneeling back to back with my friend who already had the harness on her. He started taking out more hemp rope and started to tie us together, back to back. We were tied securely to one another, ropes connecting our wrists, upper arms and a crotch rope connecting us as the final piece. Since we were tied, back to back, we were able to tease one another a bit. Since we both had control over the crotch rope we were able to torment each other slightly by pulling on the one side and causing each other a bit of discomfort. At one point, I realized I better behave as I was being particularly bratty. She started digging her nails into me which made me behave, at least temporarily.

Once we were secured to each other, PG pulled in the violet wand. As soon as a spark hit my skin my mood went immediately from bratty to a more submissive state. Electricity has that effect on me. He varied between the both us, starting off with our breast, running the wand over our nipples, making the spark jump onto the nipples and all the lovely sensations that come with it. After zapping our breast, he switched to the probe attachment and start shocking my friend. It was fun being tied to her, feeling her struggle, and hearing her screams. We were both pushing on each others back. It would cause the other person closer to the violet wand. At one point after hearing my friend scream out, PG moved his attention to me again and I could not help but yell out as well when the sparks hit my pussy.

It was a wonderful flow among all us, varying the sensation and switching from one to another. However, I really have to learn to keep my mouth shut sometimes when I am playing with them but I cannot help it.

We played for a while and just as my pussy being getting all tingly from the shocks it was time to untie us. After the hemp was off us, I admired the rope marks (I have a thing for them) and we cuddled for a while before getting into more fun.

Tons of stuff was going on but at one point I was being held down by PG and my friend was scratching and squeezing me. At one point, they both went to reach for my nipples and started pulling and twisting, along other things. I was in such a subspace so I did not notice that some of my friends arrived. After coming down a bit and recovering I was able to catch up with them which is always a delightful treat.

Headed out a bit early to continue the wonderful evening back at my place. Such a wonderful weeknight evening.

It was such a beautiful day yesterday that I couldn’t resist the urge to spend the day outside. After heading downtown for my day job I decided that I should take the day off and enjoy this rare day of sunshine and warm weather. This is the first day of warm weather and after having days and days of cloudy, rainy weather I needed to take advantage of it.

After heading back home and doing the necessary items on my to-do list I headed out to enjoy the day. After walking around my area for a bit, I stopped by my friends house to see if they wanted to join me. One of them was free so we headed out for a walk around the lake which was lovely and calm. It was nice being able to catch up and enjoy the outdoors. After a walk around the lake the afternoon was ending I headed home and getting ready for the evening.

After spending the day outside, it occurred to me that I really have to do some outdoor bondage this summer. The only problem is being discreet enough and not causing any unwanted attention. Since I didn’t grow up here, I’m throwing out the question to people who have or really knows this area well. Where can I get tied up outdoors where privacy wouldn’t be an issue in the Vancouver area?

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