When I woke up Sunday morning, I was sad but also excited. I wanted the conference to continue longer, I was having a great time and getting sick but a damper into things. However, I was going to make the most of the day.

After breakfast, I headed to the final workshops of the day which one of them was Graydancer’s, The Prisoner’s Dilemma. Graydancer is a wonderful presenter and the workshop was hot and informative. I was able to even help strip down the demo bottom and help capture her when she escaped. I talked with this later with Graydancer, but I would love to have him come to Vancouver and do an un-conference here. He has a great energy to him and his knowledge would be a welcome to our community.

After his workshop, I caught a bit of the breath play workshop by Master Kondrad before hanging around the hotel and headed to the pool party. Sitting by the pool, having lunch and talking with some sweet people was a perfect cool down to the weekend. After having enough sun, I headed out and ran into one of the organizers for the South Florida TNG group. We were talking during the weekend and was even planning to have a scene on Saturday (before I got sick). He was hosting a workshop about breast bondage by Graydancer in the evening with some play time afterwards and invited me to join.

It was a fun workshop and I was able to volunteer to demonstrate a breast harness on. People who know me know how turned on by being tied and watching other tied, hence to say it was a pleasurable workshop. After the workshop, I had the chance to play and had a fun scene involving canes, rope and clover clamps. Thank you for the scene D, I decided to be discreet about our play session and I forgot to ask if I could write about it. Guess you had to be there :-)

A quick recap from the weekend, I meant so many wonderful people at Beyond Leather. Going there as available, I was a bit worried about meeting new people. Even though I went down with a friend, I love being social and everyone was really welcoming, nice and I had a wonderful time. I would love to be able to spend more time in the community down there but unfortunately it’s in the South Eastern portion of the USA and I’m on the west coast of Canada. The workshops, hotel and parties were filled of fun and I’m planning to go back next year. Hopefully this time, I can recruit some of my friends to go. Anybody interested?

I can never really sleep when there is a conference going on, I always want to be up and start attending the first things in the morning. After waking up and having breakfast ( the meal plan was convenient) I headed off to enjoy the workshops, to get turned on and learn new things.

Workshops:

Simmering Scenes – Graydancer

Fisting both Vaginal and Anal – Sarah Sloane

Roleplay – Mollena

Extreme Genitore – Sarah Sloane

Psychology of Psychological Play – Mollena

I originally left some spaces blank in my schedule, besides wanting to see Graydancer and Sarah Sloane workshops, but after seeing Mollena demo bottom for one of Graydancer workshops, I decided I must see her workshops that she was presenting. If you ever get a chance, don’t miss her.All the workshops for the day were great. I was going to go into more detail about them all but writing this three weeks later and lots of play has left my mind a bit sketchy.  All three of them are must see presenters though, the quality of their workshops, information learned and most of all were very entertaining.

Unfortunately, during the day I started feeling sick. For some reason my tongue got swollen (no, it wasn’t from any play) and I started having trouble speaking. I was a bit worried since I was down in the States and the last thing I wanted to do was for it to turn into a serious problem and miss the conference. Luckily after some Benadryl and resting it went away. I’m thinking it might be a food allergy but I have none that I’m aware of.

I missed the evening portion due to needing rest but went to the Electric Chair Theater, which included a hot interrogation scene with an electric car, wire and so much more. Then it was time to hang around the dungeon a bit before getting my sick butt to bed. Lots of potential play but I decided to be good. Luckily when I woke up on Sunday, I was pretty much better but that post is coming up shortly.

Friday morning was relax with some time spent sleeping in and hanging out with some new acquaintances. I got a pre-tour of the dungeon on Thursday and was all excited for the workshops and play to begin.

Ropemarks after Lqqkout workshop

Ropemarks after Lqqkout workshop

Friday classes started out with Lqqkout class -Finding your style I know I put it here somewhere. I have to be honest that I don’t remember much of the class besides the images, jute rope and a great presenter. I was luckily enough to volunteer for a quick demo of one of the different techniques of a soft and sensual tie.

I wish I knew the name of the tie but my hands were tied in front of me with the rope going around my back.  It’s the way he tied that made the difference with running the rope gently around and creating a sense of intimacy. I was a tad nervous but it was hot and before I knew it, I was getting all giddy. It was my first time experience jute (why did I wait so long) and I fell in love with the feeling and am going to be buying some for myself.  Thanks Lqqkout for the intro to jute (and a must to have item), being able to stay in it during the workshop and an informative and fun workshop.

Another photo of ropemarks from Lqqkout class

Another photo of ropemarks from Lqqkout class

Artemis Hunter presented next in a class titled Predicament Bondage. It was a really fun class and I volunteered for a wide variety of predicaments. I tried to give others a chance to participate but others were being shy and who can say no to a presenter with such charisma and draw.  My favourite predicament was the nipple tug game which two of us had nipple clamps attached (I took the clover clamps) with one leg up each and ankle ropes running to the other volunteer nipples and vice versa. Many more predicaments were explained but you’ll have to attend her workshop. A couple of them are ones that I don’t want someone to find out about and I’m still hiding the sheet. We’ve planned an interrogation scene around the whole thing.

The last workshop of the day that I went to was Branding presented by Mark Frazier (I couldn’t find his web site). It was interesting and we were able to see a partial cold branding made with dry ice. Unfortunately the dry ice was a bit old but it was interesting and intriguing. I’ve always wanted to learn more about branding and one of my favourite things was watching the demo bottom reaction.

After all the workshops was dinner, where I was joined with some great company for dinner then freshen up for the Opening Ceremonies. The Ceremonies started off with a big bang with a entertaining performance. Awards, introductions and thanks were paid. Then we were all dismissed for the Dungeons and Theaters.

I missed the Pony theater unfortunately but checked out various scenes in the dungeon. Some very hot scenes were going on including a breath play scene that stole my attention for a good portion of the evening before heading off to the rope theater. The rope theater, which was titled, “Nawa Nights Return”. Artemis Hungeon, Leon Grossman, Lqqkout, Graydancer, Cherry Torn and I’m sure I’m forgetting others put on a capturing show involving a range of rope performance self-suspension, intense suspension, take downs and more. It left me all wet, horny and wanting rope on me. It was a great opportunity to see a show like this and added to the joy of the weekend.

After the show there was more socializing and a bit of time in the dungeon before I retired for the night and headed to bed.

Beyond Leather was an amazing event and I had a wonderful time. The event was wonderful, the hotel beautiful and the people were sweet and fun. I don’t even know where to start. I’m already planning on going in 2010.

I left on Monday for Seattle to make the trip a bit easier, relaxed by the pool, lounged around the hotel and got plenty of rest before catching an early morning flight to Orlando. Because of the time difference, by the time I traveled and landed I was greeted at the airport by Sir D and some of his friends. The evening was great, hanging out with a bunch of sweet and kinky people. We had a blast at dinner and hanging out afterwards.

Wednesday was reserved for Disney Magic Kingdom which was fun. We walked around the park numerous times and tried out the different rides. Disney is definitely for kids but it was nice to go back and go on the classic Splash Mountain, Thunder Mountain Railroad and even Buzz Lightyear ride. It was a fun and exhausting day and after a frozen lemonade drink, I was ready to pass out.

In the morning we headed out to Fort Lauderdale for checking in and getting settled in the host hotel. The hotel was upscale, when I entered I was greeted to an oasis inside completed with a glass roof, trees and even a bit of water with turtles in it. The rooms were spacious with a separate living room area (pull out couch), small desk/dining, microwave and a mini fridge. It was a nice area to relax in and entertain. The bedroom was separated by a door which is perfect you were sharing a room. The bed was soft, comfortable and oh so lovely and complete with a make up table, dressers and another flat screen.

I could go on and on but I want to start writing about all the fun the conference was. Stay tuned.

Apr 232009

Am I excited, yes. It usual doesn’t happen until I’m on the way though. There is the excitement before however the day to day life demands that make life hectic, tend to take away from it. I started writing this on the bus down but wasn’t able to post

There is something about going to a BDSM conference that is a wonderful experience. A whole weekend full of workshops, play parties, meeting new and friendly people and in this case, even some sun.

If money was unlimited, I would be going to conferences however since it is a factor and other things need to be paid, I do have to limit. Sometimes I travel for “work” but usually the guidelines are pretty clear and I have a ton of personal time with a couple of private scenes planned. A couple of years ago, I was able to do this a lot more often when I was pro subbing full-time however since I decided to pursue other interest, I only do it on a very limited and exclusive basis.

I miss that part though, I love travelling BDSM events. It gives you an experience that lets you get outside your own community and expand your knowledge and play. If you are able to, I encourage it. You will come away with a fresh mind and new experiences.

Anyways, Beyond Leather is starting tomorrow and I’m giddy. Looking forward to sharing part of my experience with it.

Life has been hectic lately as I’m finally starting to feel better from the nerve damage. I’m not 100% better but I’m getting there. I’ve been spending most of this time catching up with friends, doing some unpacking and planning how my mini dungeon is going to look.

I’m also getting ready for 2 adventures within the next two months. I’m going to Beyond Leather, April 24th to 26th in Florida. I’m really excited about this as I wouldn’t of been able to go without a generous offer. I’m planning on heading down a bit early to see a couple of tourist attractions and rest a bit before the big weekend.

The next weekend, a friend and I are going to head down to the Seattle Erotic Art Festival. I’ve been wanting to go since I’ve moved out West but never got the chance. It should be a fun weekend and we are planning on going to CSPC. It’s been too long since I’ve been in Seattle. I use to spend 50% of my time down there and I miss the city.

Is anyone else going to any of these events?

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