I was wondering if anybody has tried or have a Tetruss 2? I’ve been very tempted to buy one but I’m debating if that’s the best use of my some of my disposable income right now. One thing to consider is I’m still working on the basic ties however it would be great when I have people over who would love to use it and it’s portable.

Feel free to e-mail me, comment or message me on Fetlife.

Task: Clothes Pins

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Jul 042010

“… you are to apply an arc of five clothespins to each of your breasts, with the middle one on the nipple. They are to remain on fifteen minutes. But there’s a twist: At the end of that time, you are to flip a coin. If it comes up heads, you can remove the clothespins. If it comes up tails, you are to leave them on for a further ten minutes.”

Waking up Sunday morning, I opened up my e-mail to discover my task for today.  My morning was busy but the afternoon was free. I stripped, took out my clothes pins and got comfortable on my bed. The wooden clothes pins typically don’t hurt right away but as time goes on, the sensation does built and if they are on for a long time, it can get pretty intense (or if they are hit off). They were getting more sensitive as the minutes ticked away as I grabbed the coin. I ended up flipping heads on the coin and took them off as directed.

On other news, PG and I were speaking about creating our own personal D/s manual. I’m getting more excited about it and have started generating ideas for it. It will be interesting talking about it and exploring it more when he gets back.

Photo by Fanboy30 http://www.flickr.com/photos/stevedave/3678666888/

Happy Canada Day! Hope everyone whether living here in Canada or abroad has a wonderful Canada Day. I’m happy that I live here.

Wednesday Task

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Jun 302010

After a fun, treating myself afternoon and evening, I came home and opened up my e-mail from PG for my task for today.  He has a pair of beautiful, Danton boots that we use exclusive for intimate play between us. The task was to place the boots on the floor and “skinner” my pussy around his boots. I was told to make them gleam.

As I put them down on the floor by the couch, I bent down and kissed the top of each one and then stripped naked. I was already turned on and wet before I started grinding myself on them. I placed myself on them and worked my way on them until they were absorbed with my fluid. His boots soaked it in and before long, I could smell the combination of leather and my wetness, which turned me on even more. I moved on to the next one, which was gleaming shortly after I started. After the task was done, I took a couple of photos, as requested. After I completed the task, I was allowed to relaxed on the floor and brought myself to powerful orgasm.

This task was meaningful and a lot of fun. He left his boots here without saying why, even when I asked what for. Looking at them everyday, I had a feeling they would be used in a task but I thought it might be to condition them. It makes me happy knowing that I’m pleasing him and he will have the e-mails upon his return. It keeps us connected even when he is miles away and without any Internet or phone access. Looking forward to seeing what else he will have me do.

Saturday June 26th 2010

This week has been hectic with social activities along with a stressful week at work. I was planning on going to East side pride but wanted to escape the city, the noise and just get away. Since I couldn’t go to far away and still had to be in Vancouver on Sunday, I decided to head to a park in the next city over and enjoy what this area has to offer.

My friend D decided to join me as we headed off to the bridge and explored the area, hiked and had a picnic lunch. It was peaceful having uninterrupted time, not hearing dogs bark, sirens going off, people talking and leaving the city behind. It was a beautiful park with lots of trails to explore, places to climb and water to relax by. I stuck my foot in the water but it was freezing cold. However, on the warmer summer days, I’m sure it would be a welcomed treat.

Relaxing by the water

I have to take the opportunity to take more of these mini trips out for myself. I’m spoiled by living here and don’t take advantage of it enough. It left me recharged and focused for everything else that goes on in life.

However,  I won’t mind throwing some outdoor bondage into the mix on an outing. I just have to find a place that is more secluded.

Jun 202010

It’s been awhile since I’ve done any anal play and looking back, I’m not sure why. I guess other play has taken over but it’s something that I enjoy. I’ve talk about it with PG but we haven’t gotten a chance to get back into it.

I opened up my first task yesterday, I had the choice of doing it either yesterday or today. Yesterday was busy with organizing, enjoying the sun and going out in the evening with S, which included some savoury Belgian beer. The task was:

…pick a size of butt plug you’re comfortable with. Do any foreplay that makes you relaxed and receptive. Once that’s done, you are to lie facedown, on the bed, Liberator, or mat, as you like. Gently insert the plug …You may cum at the end of this task, but not during.

I decided to start off with one of my smaller one. After some foreplay and keeping myself on the brick of orgasms, I put it in and cuddled up on bed while thinking about past memories of our time together, the feeling of the plug in my ass and about how hot it will be to be taken  again. The requirement was only to keep it in for 15 minutes but I kept it in longer. I went along with some other things that had to be done, checked out some websites and then finally removed it later on in the afternoon. By the time I took it out, I was soaking wet and couldn’t resist getting off with my Hitachi.

Looking forward to seeing the other tasks that are awaiting for me and getting back into anal play.

PG really enjoyed the Harmony Wireless Wonder, “like most males, I’m fascinated by invisible action at a distance. TV remotes, garage door openers, car alarm tweeters, they’re all good. (I’m even geeky enough to have soldered together a home-made radio control for an alarm when I was a teenager.) So it was with more than just erotic interest that I approached testing this remote control vibe.

We started by tying Alpine spread-eagled to the bed. Purely for science of course – we didn’t want thrashing to mar our careful study of the effects. After suitable foreplay with hands and implements, I began activating the unit. It’s got seven separate cycles, including one I loved but Alpine loved to hate: a quick rev up that excites her, then quickly drops away before she can cum – sort of like a series of surf waves that never let you catch a ride.

One downside is that there’s no feedback loop to the remote to tell you which cycle you’re on. However, it was usually pretty easy to tell, both from the sounds Alpine made, and from the sounds the vibe itself made. It’s audible enough, even when inside someone, that you wouldn’t be doing naughty things at the library with it. You could probably get away with it in a night club (and in the kind of clubs Alpine and I frequent, no one would be upset anyway…) The remote’s range is between two and four meters, BTW.

This unit could be used for public or private teasing, or for “skinnering” a pussy to response to other stimulus – activating it as you slap breasts for example.  All in all, it’s a toy with lots of potential.”

I did like the wireless bullet however I found it frustrating in some ways.  The battery life seemed to be really short. I’ve had to replace them twice since getting it and only a couple of play sessions out of it.  I’ve tried to keep track of how long they lasted but got a bit distracted. Another thing that PG mentioned is that it’s difficult to know what setting it’s on and sometimes it doesn’t register when you press the button. This happened when we were right beside each other or a couple of meters apart. It did work sometimes when we were in a separate room or through a door. It’s really difficult to find a good wireless bullet but so far this is the best one I’ve tried out despite the faults however it could be improved.

I did enjoy playing with it and having someone else have the controls (even when it put it on the setting that I didn’t like) It has 7 settings for you to explore. Three are straight vibrations (low, medium, high) and 4 separate patterns ( low to high rev, pulse, faster pulse, and a 3 short with one long pulse). The bullet is made out of ABS plastic and is can not be sanitized, if you want to share you can put it in a condom. The bullet is 3.5” long, diameter of 1 3/8” with a 3” plastic cord. It does take 3 N type batteries in the bullet and one 12V battery in the remote. There is an o-ring which keeps the toy waterproof, I had no issue cleaning the bullet or having any water seep in. You can clean it with soap and water, 10% bleach solution or with toy cleaner. I would advise not to use this for anal play.  I would give this toy a 3 out of 5. It could easily be a perfect toy if they could fix the above issues. For the current issues and the price, I think it’s a bit overpriced.

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*The above toy was provided free of charge in exchange for the review. It does not influence whether I give a glowing or negative review. My opinions would be the same as if I paid for it myself*

His Summer Partner

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Jun 172010

Picture by ecstaticist http://www.flickr.com/photos/ecstaticist/3870259374/

One of the things I love about PG is his love of the outdoors and his outdoor geek talk, even though it goes over my head sometimes. We just spent a great evening together before he departs on one of his adventures, which will keep him away for a month.

He loves being outdoors and as much as I love it, he enjoys going on his solo trips for weeks with just himself, nature and roughing it. It’s one of his passions and I love seeing the excitement in his eyes when he talks about his trips coming up and how relaxed he is afterwards. I love looking at the photos and listening to his tales after we catch up.

One of the things we started doing last year was tasks. He e-mails me a bunch of tasks in advance. I don’t know what he has planned for me but they are sitting in my inbox, waiting to be opened on a stated date and time.  It’s a way we found to keep the bound strong while he is away and continue our training at the same time.

I get to open the first one on Saturday and might be posting updates depending on what they entail and if I’m ordered to. I have a lot planned for the next couple of weeks but it always warms my heart to open them up and knowing that completing them makes him happy. Looking forward to seeing what he has in store for me.

Thanks to the lovely and talent AAG and her web design business 3design3, I have a new design to my website.  Take a look around and tell me what you think.

It was a pleasure working with AAG and I would highly recommend her if you are looking to make some simple changes, content transfer or a complete redesign. She was great at listening to what I was looking for, making suggestions and showing me different options. She took what I envisioned and surpassed my expectations.

During the redesign she kept in constant contact me. She would point out things that should be adjusted or fixed (and fix them), which improved the look and function of my blog.  She asked a lot of questions and was willing to make any adjustments that I requested. I also appreciated her offering her opinion on different questions that I asked. It can be difficult making a decision and having her helped me made me feel more at ease. She also took time to explain the new format and theme, pointing out things that I need to know. I know if I run into anythine, she will be there to help. I wanted to redo this site for a while and made a great choice by going with 3design3. Thank you again!

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Lately, my interest in rigging has increase. There is an pansexual event in Vancouver that is specifically designed for female riggers, which I’m looking forward to. I’m hoping that it will be a way that we can learn, practice with others and get more female riggers in the Vancouver community.

PG and I have a extensive rope kit but we use it only for us. It’s hemp rope dyed black, suits us and we both like how it stands out against my skin. It has only touched PG and I skin, which is the way it will stay. However, it does present an issue now that I’m learning how to tie.  I’m debating about getting my own rope kit, picking out a different colour however I want to stick with hemp, which isn’t the cheapest. I’m thinking about picking which colour will be my play/casual one and buying a small amount and building up as time goes along. Another option is PG has a lot of natural hemp that he is willing to let me use. I think the second option might be best for me until I build another rope kit. Once, I get more advance I can make more of an investment but since I’m just starting off with the basics, it will work.

I find that when I bottom, I generally have my own hemp that I bring but it’s rarely used except for crotch ropes. The people that I have played with  tend to prefer using their own rope. For other relationships in the future, I’m not sure we would have unique rope as it really depends on the relationship, connection and how we both feel about it.

It would be interesting to hear if other people have rope that is separated by relationships vs casual play or any other way that you do it.