I was watching the, “Find out Why the Fetish of Fisting is So Fascinating & Fun” video from behindkink.com, which got me thinking about my experiences with fisting.

Fisting use to be a personal limit for me however as I educated myself about it, it appealed to me. Once I become comfortable with the idea and educated myself about it, I brought it up with my partner PG. He was more then happy to fist me and with the trust there and him knowing that I considered trying fisting intimate we went ahead.

We tried a couple of times and it just couldn’t happen. I was simply too nervous and too tight for him to work his whole fist in me, We did have fun trying but it just wasn’t the right time. One evening together, we were playing and I got to the point where my mind was lost in the pleasure. It lead to us trying fisting and it was the first time that he was able to get his fist inside of me. The pleasure of when the whole fist slips in, is amazing. I simply can’t describe it. You feel so full, complete and the amount of pleasure reaches a new high. As the fister moves their fingers around, the most sudden movements can cause you to burst in orgasms. Your whole body becomes consumed with the feelings and the person who has their fist in you.

Since the first time we did it, it’s been an activity that I love receiving. I haven’t found a willing women who will let me on them yet, but one day. We keep on exploring it and incorporating it into different styles of play.  A couple of weeks ago, I had needles in my breast and before I knew it, I was being fisted, spread open and a variety of other fun things.

I wanted some tips from others and provide some of my own to share with others, if you have any please comment and I will edit the post to reflect it. Or even if you have a hot fisting story to share.

* Go slowly, communicate and breath together. Start off by using one finger and gradually building up.

*If the fistee wants to stop, move out slowly and wait until the contractions end. You can hurt someone by pulling out to fast or when they are having a muscle contraction

*Sometimes it can get overwhelming, communicate with each other, sometimes all you need is one another to stay still and embrace the sensation.

*Once you are at the point of slipping in 5 fingers, gradually work your way in until your thumb (folded inside) and your whole hand is inside.

*Enjoy and have fun

*Take your time, if it’s not right that night then there is always next time

There is a lot of information out there and this is simply a post to bring it up and share some of my experience with it. I recommend checking out the video on Behind Kink, if fisting is appealing to you.