I blog on Kinky Sex Link and enjoy reading the adventures of various bloggers in one place. I was reading various post and noticed a new question on the site, check out the post.
“What was your defining moment when you knew that you couldn’t exist without facets of BDSM in your life?”
For me, there was no defining moment but rather a cluster of them that formed how BDSM shaped my life. One of the first defining moments in explore kink was when I was still a teenager. I was raised as a Roman Catholic and even though I stopped supporting the church and most of their beliefs, it played a major role into shaping the person I became. I grew up fairly innocently in terms of sex and didn’t know that some of my secret desires were normal. I suppressed these feeling for awhile until in my late teens I was taken to a store called Northbound Leather in Toronto. It was my first time at a fetish store and after getting over the initial shyness and some encouragement from the owner and the guy I was with, I started trying on outfit of outfit and fell in love with the feel and look at it. For the first time, I was at a store where sexuality and kink could be discussed openly and without judgement. I felt at home and after that I attended my first fetish party where I started discover more and more my hidden desires.
From there, I started playing and attending more and more events until I moved out to Vancouver. That brought on more defining moments but this was the one that was a forming moment in my life that lead me to discover parts of myself that I never knew existed or that could be possible.
I’m thinking about writing about more defining moments in my life, stay tuned. I know this was a short one as I’m recovering from the drain of writing a midterm.
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