Head Bondage

Bondage Tagged with: ,
Nov 142011

After watching Lee Harrington Intricate Head Harness on Kink Academy, I knew I wanted to try it and as luck would have it, I had a date night with PG.  I asked PG if he would be interested and he said, “yes”. After watching it together, we sat down on the mat and he got started. After the foundation was tied, he started tying more, I was floating. It was intimate, connecting and special.

Tying so close to me, covering my eyes with the cord and running it in my mouth and under my jaw so I couldn’t speak. Touching me and letting me float with his hands on me, the connection between us building and it taking us where it did. I loved the restriction that it provided not being able to see or talk, simply enjoying.

He was surprised about my reaction and how fast it hit me, we weren’t expecting it but both of us are looking forward to more.

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Wonderful Weekend

Bondage, Relationships Tagged with: ,
Jan 302011

This weekend was filled with fun times, pleasure, laughs and marks. It’s a bit hard to realize that the work week is ahead but at least Westward Bound is next weekend and then the move. It was a great chance for PG and I to spend quality time together with no other commitments but each other.

Saturday was a great party over at a friends house. We were able to play on this chair type thing on top of a cage. After being secured around it with rope and having my arms tied to my side, my legs were spread apart. He put one of my legs in the stirrups and tied the other to the metal bars in the windows above. We had a lot of fun with the position and the exposure that it gave. He plugged in the violet wand and would zap my inner thighs, breasts, vulva and all around varying the intensity and intervals. After warming me up, he put my collar on me after I was able to get a lot of my brattiness out. My attitude and mind frame completely changed as soon as the lock clicked. We continued to play with lots of torturing with hands and zaps from the wand.  I was a puddle afterwards and as he untied me, he put me on the ground before we retired to the aftercare area to recharge. We rejoined the party and soaked in the hot tub while socializing, perfect. We always leave his parties feeling warm and happy. Thank you again for the invite and we hope to be able to come to the next one.

After sleeping in after the night before, I was feeling so warm and cozy. We cuddled for awhile before deciding to take advantage of my hard points since they were coming down that day. PG put me into a comfy, face up suspension and let me float for awhile before he dom-nommed me and I fell into a blissful state. Time just flew by as every touch, suck and lick was enhanced. After being up and receiving pleasure, he let me spin before taking me down and resting with each other. We spent the rest of the afternoon pleasuring each other and talking about more training.

I had my collar on for most of the weekend and the feeling of being protected, loved and owned felt right. We haven’t been exploring the D/s part of our relationship lately due to having fun with other things and letting my bratty side come out and play. I believe just letting our relationship flow how it will, is the best way. Right now, it seems to be flowing back to a more D/s.

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FIRE party

Bondage, Events Tagged with: ,
Jul 242010

Last night I went to a FIRE party, which stands for Female Identified Riggers Evolution. It was a lot of fun and a completely different vibe from most rope events. It was great as there was social time in the beginning and then a beginners work shop and downstairs there was a chance for people who were beyond the basics to practice everything from floor work to suspension.

We got a chance to go over the basics. My friend G graciously volunteered to be my stunt bottom as I learned and thankful helped me when I got stuck. I was very happy when I did my first chest harness on him.

One thing I noticed is that as soon as the hemp rope touched my hands, my mind  was starting to get all floaty and started to wander into a more bottom space. I had to fight to stay out of it. I guess over the years, I’ve been conditioned. However, I love being conditioned that way so it will be an interesting experience trying to keep that but being able to turn it off when needed. I’m looking forward to practising more and slowly learning. Now, just to find people to practise on.

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Relationship and Casual Rope

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Jun 122010

Lately, my interest in rigging has increase. There is an pansexual event in Vancouver that is specifically designed for female riggers, which I’m looking forward to. I’m hoping that it will be a way that we can learn, practice with others and get more female riggers in the Vancouver community.

PG and I have a extensive rope kit but we use it only for us. It’s hemp rope dyed black, suits us and we both like how it stands out against my skin. It has only touched PG and I skin, which is the way it will stay. However, it does present an issue now that I’m learning how to tie.  I’m debating about getting my own rope kit, picking out a different colour however I want to stick with hemp, which isn’t the cheapest. I’m thinking about picking which colour will be my play/casual one and buying a small amount and building up as time goes along. Another option is PG has a lot of natural hemp that he is willing to let me use. I think the second option might be best for me until I build another rope kit. Once, I get more advance I can make more of an investment but since I’m just starting off with the basics, it will work.

I find that when I bottom, I generally have my own hemp that I bring but it’s rarely used except for crotch ropes. The people that I have played with  tend to prefer using their own rope. For other relationships in the future, I’m not sure we would have unique rope as it really depends on the relationship, connection and how we both feel about it.

It would be interesting to hear if other people have rope that is separated by relationships vs casual play or any other way that you do it.

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Sundays are now rope day

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Apr 252010

Sundays seem to be the new rope day at my place.  It seems to be the date day that we dedicated to working on our new skills that we have learned. It’s going pretty well and I’m loving that I get to spend so much time being tied and trying out new things.

Rope marks after a suspension earlier this month

Today we did a missionary face up style of suspension, which was fun. After being put in the gun slinger style hip and leg harness, having loose ropes for the chest support and going up in the air, it was pretty comfortable. It’s a good learning experience for me too since I get to learn with PG as we are keep trying new things.

I love being up in the air and the feeling of being off the ground. It’s fun when you can move around and change position. Today, I was able to move around and ended up in a sitting position which was quite comfortable. It’s fun moving around and I’m looking forward to seeing how I can twist and move into other positions. I also like the suspensions were you can’t move around but variety is important and fun.

I’m looking forward to trying more challenging positions too. It’s so much fun to try new things and see what I can do.

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Wanting to learn

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Apr 162010

My first tie

It’s been a week and a bit since I could post, my finger is pretty much all better now. It’s a bit sore if I use it too much which makes typing, cleaning and other things difficult. Luckily, it healed enough so it didn’t interfere with the Lewbari weekend. It was a wonderful and intense weekend but that will be in the another blog post. I crashed pretty hard from the weekend and it took awhile to adjust to normal life again.

Going to the Lewbari weekend inspired me to start learning more on my own. I spent some time learning some knots and tying myself a bit over the week. I’m looking forward to learning more on my own and with help from others. It will be fun progressing  and learning new techniques too. I still prefer to be on the receiving end but there is something about learning rope bondage that appeals to me.

Hitch and ring

On a side note, we bought a hitch for my apartment which will assist in suspensions and also let me down quickly in case of emergency. On my own, it’s fun for me to lie down on the ground and lift the lower part of my body slowly up with it. Once I get skilled enough (and with someone spotting), I’m hoping to one day having the skill to do self suspension but that’s far down the road. Have to learn the basics first.

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First Suspension with PG

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Mar 282010

First suspension with PG

A picture of the rope marks from a scene with PG on a Sunday. I wrote about it here or the post right below.

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Two scenes in one afternoon

Bondage, D/s Tagged with: ,
Mar 212010

Sunday morning came along and after getting a lot done in the morning, it was almost time for date day. I got a call from him to make sure I’m completely ready to go when he came in. I greeted him on my knees, with my collar on, naked and kiss his boots or ankles (depending on what he is wearing).  I proceeded with our ritual and once I was done, he bent down and kissed me before telling me to stay still and not to look. I heard him rumbling around our toy closer and all of a sudden a big, cloth bag is put over my head. He put a belt around the bag and my waist to secure it and took me into the bedroom to use me.  It was hot having the bag over my head, my breathing and sight limited. We had sex like that for awhile before he removed it and decided it was time to torture my breast until we both orgasmed.

After we took some time to relax and recover, we went out in the living room to play with some rope. I found a great video on Hogtied by Lew Rubens for a basic suspension. After showing it to PG, we decided to try it out. After putting on a revised chest harness, he tied rope along my thighs and lifted one leg up and then the other one. We had to revise it a couple of times but then we found exactly where the rope felt good and making it a bit looser. Once the revisions were made, we tried again. First one leg went up and then the other. It felt great but we both knew it wouldn’t be sustainable for a long period of time. Just as the video showed, he tied a waist rope around me and everything felt great. I was able to twirl, swing and just float. It was so much fun being swung around and swinging to kiss him. I’m not sure how long I was up for but eventually he had to take me down.  After being up in the air, it felt really weird being back on the floor. He started to undo all the ropes and after taking some photos , we cuddled up with rope surrounding us. It was the first time that PG suspended me fully and it was great. Looking forward to more and just wished we had more time today.

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Rope Day with PG

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Mar 142010

With day light saving time today our date came sooner then usual. I wasn’t sure what the day was going to hold but we both wanted to do some rope play. We are in the process of breaking in our new suspension kit, which I bought from Twisted Monk (pimping out his product as it’s wonderful). We began the day with cuddles and lots of hugs and kisses before I announced what I thought would be a great idea, partial suspension bondage.

He started with putting a breast harness on me with lots of wraps and told me to stand up. Being the good girl that I was being, I complied. He connected the harness with rope to an anchor point in the ceiling. Once I was connected, I tested it out and started swinging around. After I was done giggling and having fun, he tied rope around my ankle and lift my leg up and connected it above. It was fun and trying to stay balanced is always a  challenge. He gave me enough room to move around so I could vary how high I would lift my leg and play around with the rope. It was fun.

He wasn’t going to suspend me today but wanted to try out a couple of things as we or I should say he is expanding his skills. He put a hip rope on me with multiple wraps and lifted my free leg up. It was fun and I’m looking forward to the chance when he will suspend me fully with rope. I love playing in rope and flying both physically and mentally is so freeing.

We will be going to the LewBari weekend which will be a weekend of learning, being tied up and lots of fun. I can’t wait for it and looking forward to having the weekend with PG while we both learn and have fun.

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The Great Twisted Monk Ropecast Giveway

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Mar 132010

Picture taken by PG with our new Twisted Monk rope

Graydancer Ropecast is giving away a $50 gift certificate. Check out the Ropecast for more information or if you are a member of Fetlife, you can check out this link.

Four $50 dollar gift certificates will be given away for four months and this month theme is “Birthday”. Check out my picture above for one of my enteries. You have until March 21st 2010 for the first draw.

It’s a great podcast and if you haven’t been listening to it, get on it.

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