Three weeks away from the Vancouver GrUE

Events, GrUE
Feb 122012

Last year around this time, I was stressing out about the GrUE. The logistics and how the event was going to go was on the top of my mind. This was the first public event I was organizing and I wanted everything to go smoothly.

This year, I’m a lot more relaxed and ready to get going. Vancouver is a tough city to plan an event with but I worked with MVK again (great BDSM organization) and they allowed me to rent out their venue for the day. Everything else fell into place and after disappointing news that YWCA cancelled our booking due to the type of event we are, friends offered their house so we could all enjoy pancakes and downtime afterwards. I also have some great volunteers which will make it smoother. I’m learning to delegate a bit more.

Everything is pretty much done besides final numbers to the caterers and running around shopping a couple of days before. I can’t wait till March 2nd when I pick up a bunch of people from the train station  and then wait a  couple of hour till the meet and greet. Bounce, bounce.

If you want to grab a ticket – check out the fetlife event link for more info or the eventbrite page.

 

 

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Head Bondage

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Nov 142011

After watching Lee Harrington Intricate Head Harness on Kink Academy, I knew I wanted to try it and as luck would have it, I had a date night with PG.  I asked PG if he would be interested and he said, “yes”. After watching it together, we sat down on the mat and he got started. After the foundation was tied, he started tying more, I was floating. It was intimate, connecting and special.

Tying so close to me, covering my eyes with the cord and running it in my mouth and under my jaw so I couldn’t speak. Touching me and letting me float with his hands on me, the connection between us building and it taking us where it did. I loved the restriction that it provided not being able to see or talk, simply enjoying.

He was surprised about my reaction and how fast it hit me, we weren’t expecting it but both of us are looking forward to more.

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Blocked

BDSM
Nov 142011

I’ve been finding it more and more difficult to write, granted time has been limited but every time I go to write, I’ve been holding back and filtering myself. I use to write off the top of my head, sometimes having an idea about what I was talking about but I wouldn’t question myself or write a couple of paragraphs and then delete it.

I want that freedom back but I know it starts with me…lets give it a try. Any tips to share?

 

 

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The Vancouver GrUE is coming back!!

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Nov 042011

The international renowned GrUE is coming to Vancouver on March 2nd-4th 2012 for the second time.

What is a GrUE? A GrUE is a kind of unconference that is participant driven and self-organizing. Instead of imposing a firm schedule with classes set in stone, it is generated by us. Presentations, discussions, skill shares or fun exploring are all things you will find. The GrUE brings you the opportunity to learn, grow, share, discuss and explore topics that you are passionate about. What are you passionate about? Topics have ranged from gender, D/s, rope, taboo play, impact play, polyamory, negotiation and anything else that we want. There is room for it all at the GrUE!

For more information about the GrUEs check out the official website and The Care and Feeding of a GrUE from Graydancer’s website.

The Vancouver GrUE is made up of:

  • Friday night: Meet & Greet – TBA
  • Saturday: GrUE at Maritime Labour Center (1880 Triumph Street) – Times to be announced later – lunch is included with your ticket.
  • Saturday night: MVK Play Party (1880 Triumph Street) – 8pm to 1am – $20 admission
  • Sunday Morning: Graydancer’s World Famous Cheap-Ass Pancakes – TBA

If you came last year, we have secured a bigger and better venue to allow more room. We are using the same venue as MVK and the GrUE party will be the MVK one. MVK is also helping us out by letting use their equipment!

Everyone 18 and older welcome (you do have to be 19 to attend the party but everything else you can attend). You can also check out the Vancouver GrUE fetlife group for discussions and the previous year info. Tickets are on track to sell out this year, get them soon.

You can buy your tickets from the Eventbrite page, meeting me in person or Interac Money Transfer (message me for my e-mail address). No tickets will be sold at the door and once we sell out, no more tickets will be sold.

Accessibility info will be released as soon as it is obtained

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PG Birthday

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Aug 292011

I wanted to make PG birthday extra special this year and one day wasn’t going to be enough. On the Wednesday, Thai food, drinks and an after dinner cigar treat was the plan. We were in a public park so we weren’t able to do much play outside but he was able to ash in my hand discreetly.

Cigar play on PG birthday

I wanted to get down on my knees but being discreet and having it as our little secret with others around added a different element to it. After relaxing and hanging out, we headed back to my house for a shared bath. There is something sweet about bathing together, getting close in the tub and scrubbing each other clean. Afterwards, we went into my bedroom where he was able to get anything he wished out of me. We both ended up passing out together, cuddled up and enjoying the pleasure we just had.

Part of the scavenger hunt

The second part of his birthday was on Sunday. I wanted to surprise him and thought of the idea of a scavenger hunt. I picked out some gifts

from Maui Kink (who were amazing). I thought of little clues, got fancy take out containers, hide them  and left the first clue out. I asked him to arrive, open the door and go along with what he found. I ended up being able to mostly lock myself in to the bondage mittens and attach them to the bed. The final clue took him to me.

He started out with using the nipple stocks that I got him and he took it from there. I want to keep those memories between us but I ended up with a sore ass, nipples and both us with big smiles on our face. It was a very happy birthday for him and being able to make him happy means the world to me. Happy Birthday Sir.

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August MVK – impact, intimate and service

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Aug 072011

August MVK was wonderful, I wrote about the first part of the night with us co-topping here. After we had some water and calories, we found a station to use and talked to some friends as the floor was a bit quiet. After we caught up a bit, he ordered me naked and strapped me to a spanking bench. This bench has built-in straps which makes it lovely to use as you are secured but have a little freedom to move around. He started off with spanking me and just feeling his hands on me made me feel warm and turned on. At that moment, whatever he wanted to do with me he could. It was a lovely, mixed blur sensation with him spanking, paddling and whipping me. I would sometimes jump in response to the sensation but I enjoyed receiving everything that he gave me. He came up to me towards the end of the scene and told me to count down from 10 and thank him for each hit. It was lovely doing an impact scene there as we could be as loud as we want and not worry about my screams or the sound of the toys. He undid me and sat me on the floor, kissed and cuddled me before we cleaned up and went to the after care area for a bit of private time and come back a bit. Unfortunately, my tummy was acting up and I had to sit up so we decided to be social while I was all floaty.

It was lovely seeing friends and talking, PG took very good care of me and made sure I was well taken care of. I completely give myself to him when we play and tend to fall deep. It can take awhile for me to come back. We both love it and it’s fun not having to be forced back right away. We were hanging out and talking when PG saw someone he hasn’t seen in a while and have played with previously. I was too floaty to co-top again and I wasn’t sure if she would want that but she wanted to play that night.  We were trying to find someone for her but I felt good and could tell he wanted to but wanted to take care of me. I mentioned that I would be good if he played, I just needed to stay close. It can be hard for me to be around people who I don’t feel good energy from when I am all spacey so being able to sit and lay down in the dungeon close by was perfect (there were a couple of people there that I get bad vibes from). They had a wonderful scene and it was fun watching. I enjoyed helping him with things that can make a difference like getting them water so it was close by for afterwards and getting some chocolate to keep their blood sugar good late in the evening. They ended up switching play stations in the middle of it so I ran off to clean up the stations in between and afterwards. It was a service that helped him and made their scene better. I ended up spending the last part of their play with Cake too which was nice, great company.

The party was ending as they finished so we headed out, dropped off Cake and then PG and I had some lovely time together connecting before he let me orgasm and tucked me in for a good night sleep. I love MVK events and this one was so much fun.

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August MVK – First public co-topping

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Aug 072011

Life is pretty good right now, I’m floating in such a happy space after this weekend. This Saturday was MVK and we had a full night. PG and I co-topped together for my first time in public. Our friend, cake was our willing victim. After getting to MVK and socializing a bit, we found a lovely high table to use and claimed it. After she was on her stomach, we started dual spankings her for warm up before grabbing canes and working on her behind. It was fun coordinating our hits with each other so we didn’t end up hitting each others canes. I wanted to play the Oh Canada game with her. How it works is that you get someone to start singing the national anthem and you try to distract them. If they screw up, you start distracting them again and they have to start over. It was fun but she didn’t know the lyrics so I tried to help her by giving them to her a couple of times but in the end the distractions won. I especially enjoyed watching her bum turn from pink to red. I really wanted to play with skewers and we both figure she might need a break from the caning. It was so much fun, scratching over and over again and poking her, hehe. Her back and bum was nicely marked so we decided to flip her over before rolling a dice which would determine how many cups she received when we flipped her over. A 3 ended up being rolled.

PG tied coconut rope around her breast before we cuffed her on her back so we had access to her thighs and her breasts. I started applying the cups while PG had some fun doing breath play. I couldn’t resist having some more fun with skewers, I love how she reacted and her skin. We had some more fun with the violet wand and used the attachment where I hold onto it and the shock comes out of me. It’s fun being able to shock with your hands and what was funny was when PG would go to touch her, he would get a little zap so he insulated himself for a bit. After zapping her with my hands, PG handed me wartenberg pinwheel and that was really fun. It would zap her and her reactions were beautiful. We slowly started to bring her down at that point with PG doing some breath play and I was playing with the coconut rope, pulling on it before we uncuffed her, brought her back and made sure she was okay.

It was great fun co-topping and especially at MVK. We didn’t have to worry about noise and it’s always lovely having the equipment there. Cake was a wonderful bottom, really expressive and fun. PG was supportive and helped me a lot when I got nervous before. We were able to communicate well without even talking and feed off each other to make it a great scene. I can’t wait till we can do it again. I’m hoping to write another entry soon.

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Time apart

BDSM
Jul 172011

Tonight, I was cuddling up and watching a movie when I started thinking about PG and our time apart. He is currently away on vacation and what I’ve noticed is that the longer we are together and the closer we get, the harder the time apart is. For some reason, I thought we would be able to come up with a magical solution that makes it a lot easier. Unfortunately, we haven’t and I don’t think there is one.

We found tools that help and that makes it easier but it’s a bit hard as the majority of the time he goes away, he can’t communicate as he goes off on wilderness trips which means, no skype or even regular calls. Pre-email task help and staying busy on our regular date nights but it’s a balance. I find it easier when I’m away but it makes sense as I’m away from the routine and the vast majority of my trips, I have internet and phone access.

It’s a good sign that partners miss each other and getting away is criticial but I’m curious, does anyone else have any tips that works really well for them?

 

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Exploring my puppy side.

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Jul 112011

A grass lawn, a private backyard and a kink party led me to doing my first puppy play outdoors. It was a lovely afternoon surrounded by friends and after enjoying some social time, we decided to head to another part of the lawn that was a bit more quiet, allow us to play and not get in others way.

The water bowl was filled with water and I went onto my knees as he slid the choke collar on me. We played around with fetching the ball, training me on walking, being a good pet and following his lead. He also spent some time grooming, feeding and allowing me to be playful puppy. When I go into puppy space with him, everything else becomes non existent and all I want to do is do what I’m ordered to do to the best of my puppy knowledge, play around and be a cute puppy.

I love how puppy play makes me feel and how it allows me to connect with him. It lets us shut off the world and all that matters to me is simple needs, playing fetch, getting petted and treats.

Another perk is it’s incredibly simple in terms of the gear, we don’t have a lot at this stage. We have a water and food bowl, ball,  bone, choke collar, regular collar and a grooming glove. It’s not an expensive activity to do and some of my favourite times are with none of them at all. You don’t need the expensive gear but you can.

Eventually, we would like to get some of the more expensive toys but right now, we are quite happy. I don’t know any other female puppies in person but there are some great videos on Kink Academy (I don’t get paid anything for these links, I just love the site and think it’s a great resource.)

Do you have any other resources that you can share? If you are a female puppy too, let me know.

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Back online

BDSM
Jul 092011

I’m back, I’ve been having computer troubles for a while that made blogging or doing a lot online frustrating, sometimes it would work but sometimes it wouldn’t. My computer finally gave up and now I have a replacement. I’m looking forward to blogging on a computer that works and writing more.

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