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Pleasurists #35

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by Matt Miller

Pleasurists is a round-up of the adult product and sex toy reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #34? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #36? Submit it here before Sunday July 5th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

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Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus St. Syr

On to the reviews…

Editor’s Pick

  • Sublime by Carrie Ann
  • Insertion with this toy is wonderful. Thrusting is amazing. It’s girthy yet not huge, filling but not uncomfortable and the bumps and bulges really stimulate the inner labia and vaginal entrance.

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Review: Sensuous Soak Kit

After a month of recovering, the sensuous soak kit came just in time. Babeland use to carry it a couple of weeks ago but it looks like it no longer exist. That’s a shame as it worked perfectly for me and allowed us to have a wonderful date night.

sensuous-soakThe kit comes package in a pink Babeland bag with a Body Spa Body Sponge, Aqua Erotica ( a waterproof erotica book), JimmyJane Afterglow Candle, and Babeland Bubble Bath. I love the presentation of the kit. It would make a perfect gift for a friend and I couldn’t help but thinking about ordering one for a new mother that I know.

My sensual night started out with both of us needing some TLC. We decided to take a bath together and had some fun with the vibrating sponge. It couldn’t be used on me below due to the mishap but we both had some fun running the sponge over each other and massaging each other with it. I didn’t believe that the bullet in the sponge would last but wanted to test it. After taking the bath though, the bullet was soaked with water. I dried it out and let the batteries and the inside of the bullet dry but unfortunately after that, the bullet wouldn’t turn on and off without taking out the batteries. It was still worth it though and the sponge has come in handy for our bath time fun.

One thing we used to enhance the bath was using some of the bubble bath which was in the afternoon delight scent. The scent was light, clean, fresh and most importately uni-sex scent. It worked perfectly when we were scrubbing each other down and also for bubble bath alone. I love sitting in the tub, relaxing and letting the bubbles carry away any tension from the day.

We didn’t get a chance to review the book or candle that evening but on a private night alone, I took Aqua Erotica to the bath for me. I was worried that I might damage it but the pages are truly waterproof and after it dried, I couldn’t tell that it was just in the tub with me. It contains 18 pages of a variety of stories that put me in the mood for some self love later.

My favourite was the Jimmy Jane Afterglow Candle in cucumber water scent. I love Jimmy Jane and their attention to detail. The candle comes packaged in a box that opens up to a pink backdrop and the words MELT ME. How could I not?  It even comes with a box of matches that will last you longer then the candle. The Afterglow candles take about 30 minutes to burn in order to have enough wax for a massage. It comes with a little brush to rub all over your partner. We love exchanging massages together and the wax was well suited. The wax goes on smoothly and rubs into the skin. It does feel a bit waxy but nothing off-putting. The scent fills the room and is not overly strong to ruin the mood.

The Sensuous Soak Kit was just right for me and brought us more then one night of taking it easy and sensual. I really hope that Babeland brings it back. In the mean time, Babeland has the Sensory Set M which looks like something that would be perfect for a night of pampering or pick up a new vibrator and dildo.



An Orgasm Finally

Those that know me in various context knows I haven’t been feeling that well lately. Ever since I had that unfortunate wasabi mishap, I haven’t been feeling like myself. I detached and was feeling pretty down. Unfortunately that meant taking a break from sex, masturbating and most types of BDSM play.

I think I’m finally making some progress my clit still isn’t feeling the same but last night I was finally able to orgasm for the first time in 3 weeks. We had a hot night in with a long spanking, sex (finally) and to top it off an intense, building orgasm that bought me to tears. I think we were both giddy afterwards and I still have a huge smile on my face

It’s made a huge difference in my mood plus relieved a bunch of built up stress and fears. Cheers to healing and slowly getting back to my daily routines and feeling well enough to blog about parts of my life. Some great toys are waiting to be used.

I’ve been recovering the past week, resting and healing. It’s a bit of a funny story even though it’s been painful.

PG and I headed to MVK to play last Saturday. He loves surprising me with scenes and I love how he does it. He keeps me in suspense and won’t give me any details about it (even though I try).

After watching a very hot knife play workshop, we grabbed the rack and started to play. The scene started out in a predicament with me straddling a metal bar, legs bound up behind me and my wrist restrained behind me. After the hard floor was a bit unforgiving, he made me stand up in a similar predicament situation.

He didn’t want me to see what he had in store and slipped a cloth bag over my head. I heard rumpling around and movements and then all of a sudden the most painful burning sensation feeling on my clit, labia and ass. It was overwhelming but not in the usual  good way. I couldn’t take it and started to burst in to tears. I forgot what I said but I had to get this feeling away. What was it? Wasabi was placed on the rope and then a crotch rope was done. We’ve played with wasabi before and it’s been a great experience. It’s intense but short lived. This time however it wasn’t, it was a type of wasabi that we haven’t tried before and being written in Japanese we didn’t know it was a concentrated version.

The swelling and burning started immediately and we quickly ended the scene. We went home and tried everything from water to aloe. The aloe helped but it still killed. PG has been really sweet and taking care of me when I can. I haven’t orgasmed since it happened over a week ago but I’m finally starting to get brief periods of being turned on.

Hence to say, I’ve been recovering the entire week, trying to keep my legs spread as much as possible and just relaxing. It is getting a bit better but it’s still healing. Hence to say I haven’t been that social lately or really in a sexy, kinky mood to write. I’m hoping by next weekend, I’ll be back to my usual self, writing about kinky adventures and doing some much needed reviews.

Catching up

Life has been a bit crazy lately. The nice weather has finally arrived and I’ve been enjoying the outdoors and recovering from traveling a bit too much lately.

I’m planning on going to Paradise Unbound from September 1st to the 7th. If you can make it, you should go. It’s a fun week luxury camping, surrounded by kinky and friendly people. If you are going, let me know. I love to meet fellow bloggers and readers. Whether it’s hanging out at dinner, smores by the camp fire or even play leave a comment or send me an e-mail. I’m trying to get someone special to me to join me for a day or two plus a bunch of my lovely, kinky friends will be heading down as well.

I’ve also been dealing with some poly issues lately. It took a lot out of me for awhile and I was trying to wrap my head around it, take some time for myself to discover what is right for me and the boundaries that I need to remove or put in place. I’m in a better place now and the issues have been sorted out. The most important thing is I’m happier and my relationships are stronger then ever. Polyamory can be difficult at times but it’s the right choice for me and the rewards are never-ending.

That’s where I’ve been lately…now to get slightly caught up, enjoy the sun and put in a bit of time in the University class I’m doing by correspondance.

My expectations for the leather chastity belt were a bit too high. I was looking forward to putting it on, hiding the key and making my partner work for it or interrogate me until I give in. Unfortunately none of this happened. Anyone who is looking to lock up their partner will be sadly disappointed.

When I first opened it, I was a bit shocked at how small it was. It looks like it could fit a youth or my teddy bear (although it is a bit big for it).

Showing it off

Showing it off

There is a small triangle shape of leather connected to chains and then to a small pieces of leather before connecting to the nylon g-string.

Unfortunately as you could guess, it simply didn’t work. I think the only people that could pull it off would be someone who doesn’t have an ounce of fat. It simply isn’t flattering to most people. The nylon does stretch so a variety of sizes can wear it however it simply doesn’t look good.

Besides the cosmetics reasons of it, it doesn’t serve the function that it’s advertised as. I wasn’t expecting full chastity but I was hoping for something that would make it a bit more difficult to have sex in. All I have to do is simply move the nylon strap away from me and I can engage in any type of play.

I really wanted to like this product but unfortunately it doesn’t serve any purpose other then some light roleplaying or modeling. I think PG says it best, “If you’re the sort who finds real restraints a bit scary, but symbolic bondage such as plastic handcuffs unthreateningly erotic, you might like the purely implied control over a woman’s sexuality this slightly moded underwear offers. But if you’re into actual restraint and/or real D/s, it will be laughable at best, disappointing at worst.”

Thank you Sextoy.com for letting me try to live our my fantaties. I’ll have to look over the BDSM & Fetish section for a different one. Check them out for a wide selection of sex toys to suit any type of play.

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Pleasurists #30

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Found via The Alexa Collection photographer unknown.

Pleasurists is your round-up of the adult product reviews that came out in the last seven days from bloggers all around the sex blogosphere. Did you miss Pleasurists #28? Read it all here. Do you have a review for Pleasurists #30? Submit it here before Sunday May 25th at 11:59pm PDT. Please re-post this list on your own blog if listed.

Want to win some free swag? All you’ve got to do is enter.

Madame Editrix

Scarlet Lotus St.Syr

On to the reviews…

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There was this contraption set up in my living room from two of the hard points in my ceiling, the chains came running down and attached were all these carabiners and these two big heavy straps. One at a time, one leg went in and was secured to the chain and then the other. It was like being in a swing. After my legs were secured, he attached a back portion to it. Interrogation is hot but not when you fall backwards. After that portion was secured, he took suspension cuffs and attached them to the chain, the first thing I thought of was that I can get out of this but he noticed right away and used handcuffs to secure the D-ring to the chain above. He started out phase B by taking vampire gloves and working my ass over between the tacks that were still in, leaving scratches all over and on my inner thighs. Some of the tacks came out and I could feel the blood dripping down my ass. I heard some rumping around and then felt the most painful thing I’ve ever experienced on my nipples, it felt like my nipples  were being twisted off, stretched and abused. He did the right one first and then continued to the left. He left them on for about 5 minutes (it seemed so much longer) until be took them off hurt. The pain from taking them off was excruciating, more then putting them on. I thought I was going to give up right then. Once I caught my breath for a moment, he said he was going to do it again.  Before he could, I gave in and said I would tell him after going back and forth for a couple of minutes.

*Note: The thing he used on my nipples was to castrate  pigs and other animals. It’s these small rubber circles that come with this metal tool that stretches them out. PG picked it up at a kinky swap meet from some very good friends. I didn’t know about it till Sunday. Thank you :-)

After telling him where the paper was, he proceeded to ask me what was on it and the items that I didn’t want him to know about. He enjoyed the ideas and unfortunately it looks like we have a new punishment (not the good type) for the future. I had no idea how long the scene last but apparently it last about 2 hours before I gave in and told him.

There was one thing that I wanted to know about though, he was giving me hints about one of the things that he was going to do involving fire. He asked me if I wanted to be told it or experience it and of course I chose experience it. He did it nicely since I was well worked over. He took tea candles and put them on a stool, just above my suspended ass. The heat rose and started to burn. If the nipple thing didn’t make me give in, this surely would.

After I gave in, he held me  in the sling before taking the tacks out of my ass. I’ve never had so many in before and they killed coming out. Blood was dripping and tears were running down my face. After all of them came out, he took me down, cuddled with some blood all over us and we basket in our post play glow and orgasmed.

It was a great scene overall but completely different from play we usual do. I felt like I was  some place else with the bag over me and him interrogating me. It didn’t feel like him at most points (which was a good thing). There wasn’t the usual subspace high that I usually experience but a different high from resisting, the pain. We talked about it afterwards and he purposly didn’t touch me and created a distant between us that made this type of scene worked. What a unique and fun way to spend our long weekend, I can’t wait to do another interrogation scene again.

The idea came up after returning from Beyond Leather and having some information that I didn’t want to volunteer to him. I knew if  I would share, the knowledge would be used against me.

We planned it for this past Sunday, my first free weekend in a month and on Victoria Day weekend. Since we’ve been together for just under 3 years now, we didn’t have to worry about negotiating. He already knows my limits and can read my body better then anybody else. A lot of the time, he will know something is wrong or when to stop before I do. However, for those who are going to do an interrogation scene, please heavily negotiate before and if possible, do it with someone who knows you well.

I had an idea of how the scene would go but I was completely wrong. He started off by getting everything set up before putting the straight jacket on me, putting metal ankle cuffs on,  a cloth bag over my head, and rope around my mouth to secure it. I started off bratty, he told me to get down on my knees and I disobeyed before he did that for me. He grabbed me and told me to stay still for a moment. I took the opportunity to attempt to hide (you can’t hide in my little dungeon). When he came back, he started the interrogation, explaining that I could simply give him the information that he desired or be tortured. He was an American and I was the “innocent” Canadian. I refused to which didn’t go over well. He took this harsh implement that we have, that leaves a tire tread mark on the part that you hit (here is the link, if you are interested) Without a warm up and with the frame of mind I was in, it killed. The string and impact was intense and after only a couple of hits, I could feel my ass burning and I burst into tears. I kept denying him the information that he wanted and he proceeded to hit me over and over again.

I had the hood on and the more I was crying and drooling, the harder it was to breath. At some points, it was a huge effort to get enough air in. After making my ass red, he let me calm down a bit while I heard him grab the latex sheet. The next thing I knew, I was being placed on top of it. He took his boot, pressed it on my ass and kept asking me this whole time that it would be okay to give in, no one would blame me but I kept staying strong. I was resting on the sheet, catching my breath when he mentioned that I looked too relaxed and started dropping water over the bag. I slipped a bit out of the space as it tickled until I was suddenly put back into interrogation mode when my breathing was being controlled again.

Once I was on the sheet, I heard him rumpling around and the next sensation I felt was a tack being blown into my ass (it’s a fun toy that is designed for kink purposes) He continued to blow more and more tacks into me as I struggled, trying to protect myself. Some of them would really hurt but some weren’t too bad. I’m not sure at the number of them that were in but when there was a fair amount in, he stood up and pressed his boot into them causing sensations of pain and intensity to run all over my body. He seemed satisfied with the results so far but thought that more would get me to talk. He continued to shoot more and more into me and by that time, I was breathing hard with the bag still on. The intensity of the play, my whole head space and the heat from the straitjacket started to take its affects physical on me and I felt like I was going to be sick. Luckily my interrogator didn’t want that, released me from the straitjacket and gave me some water before moving on too phase B.

The majority of people I know have heard of Tristan Taormino for either her work as a pornographer, educator, author and even a butt plug designer. The first Tristan butt plug was designed 10 years ago and it was time for a new version. The Tristan’s Anniversary Edition was a welcomed enhancement to an already great plug. The plug is 1.75″ in diameter at the head of it and 3″ long.

When I first received the Tristan butt plug, the feeling and colour amazed me. The colour is a blue and black swirl, Tristan's Anniversary Edition Plugmade out of soft silicone (made by Vixen creations). The size enhanced me, it’s shaped like an ice cream cone (in a way) with a nice, big base.

The Tristan’s Plug is 100% silicone which means it can be shared with others once it’s been boiled or cleaned with a 10% bleach solution. Toy cleaner or soap and water will work as well however it will not be sterilized.

For me, the plug is fairly girth for me and required a fair bit of warm up with fingers and a smaller butt plug first.  Once I got it in, I felt full and comfortable. I did the standard test and walked around my house with it on and it was surprisingly comfortable. I was able to keep it in for a good portion of the afternoon and enjoyed cooking dinner, blogging and a tad bit of cleaning before I head to the bathroom to get off.

Once I started getting off with it and orgasmed, I started orgasming and like every other plug I tried, it popped out. This is typical for me but sliding it back in was easy and didn’t ruin the play at all.

The Tristan’s Anniversary Edition Plug is not for beginners but is a great plug for those with a bit experience. Thank you Tristan and Babeland for making such a great plug.

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