Curling up in bed and watching the rain fall as I’m thinking about the weekend that just passed at Paradise. I seemed to crash harder than usual after this long weekend away. Being away at camp has a magic surrounding it that is enhanced more so than other conventions. You’re isolated away from the world around you and with people who are at the very least kink friendly. You don’t have to worry about finding something to cover up your fetish clothing or your naked body when heading to a workshop, dinner or just walking around. You’re not surrounded by the news and the daily life stuff that occupies your life normally. It’s a fabulous getaway.
One of the things that was reinforced from both Jim Duvall “Rape and Abduction Play” workshop and “Defining the Moment” workshop by Graydancer was thinking and communicating about the core thing that you need to be fulfilled in certain scenes. It can be an action or a feeling but it served as a good reminder that when you are planning certain scenes to think about that, define it and communicate. I’m looking forward to thinking about some of my other fantasies, breaking them down and trying to make them a reality.
I met so many wonderful people, reconnected with friends, got to know people who I met previous better, hot play, workshops, cuddling, lots of naked swimming and hot tubing, long conversations, time by the fire, new fantasies and fulfilling one.
I’m still slowly trying to get over the drop from this weekend. I’m hoping cuddling up and watching some True Blood with a mix of blueberries and raspberries will hopefully help as tomorrow morning is going to come early and I’m sure the e-mails and in-tray are going to be stocked high after those couple of days off. I’m planning on writing more about some of my time at Paradise but right now, I’m going to take care of myself.
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