As most people know, I’m poly but PG and I have a special relationship. I know I’m allowed to play or date anyone as long as if I’m safe both mentally and physically. I’m also allowed to pursue relationships of various kinds which he supports and encourages. Not to long ago, I decided that I wasn’t going to pursue anymore sexual or romantic relationships as I had a lot going on and needed time for myself. However, that time has past and if the opportunity came up and if the attraction is there, I would be interested.
On Thursday night, I was packing for Sex 2.0. I realized that PG and I haven’t talked about our sexual limits in a bit and got nervous. I’m not planning on anything in particular but you never know what will happen. After missed calls on both of our parts, I decided to send him an e-mail before I left just to make sure if something came up, if everything would be okay like we talked about before I took a break.
Luckily it was but it helped but my mind at ease. I was 80% sure it was going to be but sometimes that confirmation was just what I needed to relax and let this weekend flow.
Even though I know my partner is okay with it, I still need confirmation from time to time for my ease of mind.
.-= David´s last blog ..Faymow: It makes me happy that a nominal fee effectively weeds out those who think the world owes them. =-.
Same here, it makes such a difference. It makes it so much easier to explore connections and have fun.
Hey Sub,
I am always impressed with your openness, I think I will have to work on that more myself. Thanks for sharing.
Your welcome. It’s difficult and there are times I struggled with it but to me, it’s worth the effort.
.-= alpine´s last blog ..Confirmation about hooking up =-.
Keep working ,great job!